TAR - Thread About Relationships vol. Calling TAY Graduates

I agree 100% with this line of manipulation by them. I can count on one hand how many times I brought up a concern to them and them actually taking what I said as constructive criticism. It usually ends up about something else.

 
Any general relationship advice you can give to someone like me? Specifically if you know anything about me from the Tinder thread?
 
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Man me and the lady intimacy is suffering due to these two kids. 4 and 10 months.

Maybe like once every like three weeks we get it in and that’s when they’re at the their grandparents house :lol:

**** rough man
I been there bro. **** maybe I'm still there tbh. My oldest is 7 and my youngest 15 months.

All I can say is talking about it helped a bit. Both with my wife and my other homies. It feels lame as hell to ask the homies how often they do it but it was good to hear that it's fairly common.

I've heard from a lot of the older homies that a woman's sex drive will actually pick up a bit again in their 40s.

Talking to your girl will help. Remind her that it's both a stress relief but also a way to connect. I've had some long stretches without sex and I've explained to my wife how that often leads to more fights and misunderstanding as the connection can be strained.

Hope this helps fam.
 
I been there bro. **** maybe I'm still there tbh. My oldest is 7 and my youngest 15 months.

All I can say is talking about it helped a bit. Both with my wife and my other homies. It feels lame as hell to ask the homies how often they do it but it was good to hear that it's fairly common.

I've heard from a lot of the older homies that a woman's sex drive will actually pick up a bit again in their 40s.

Talking to your girl will help. Remind her that it's both a stress relief but also a way to connect. I've had some long stretches without sex and I've explained to my wife how that often leads to more fights and misunderstanding as the connection can be strained.

Hope this helps fam.
Fortunately me and the lady feel the same way. She’s equally frustrated. We always tell each other “soon baby, soon” :lol: She can tell when I’m frustrated cause I can’t hide it.

It really all started when our 4 year old stopped taking naps. We use to wait until she take a nap cause we can just plop the newborn on her swinger with the tv on Baby First while we in the other room.

We try everything to exhaust the 4 year old but she super human that refuses to take naps :{
 
Y'all need to just lock yourself in the bathroom or laundry room and get a quickie in.

Planned sex is boring sex. Shh gotta be spontaneous
 
Y'all need to just lock yourself in the bathroom or laundry room and get a quickie in.

Planned sex is boring sex. Shh gotta be spontaneous
I agree but with two kids, one being an active 4 year old, it’s tough. I can just imagine the banging on the door and screaming.

Down the road, I’m sure it’ll be spontaneous but with little kids I don’t know how it’s possible.
 
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