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gucci face to some of these replies you SINGLE dudes are stupid with the things you think you "KNOW"
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I commend you, it's the right thing in my opinion.Originally Posted by onewearz
i got three kids , 13, 12, 6
i don't hit them and neither does my wife. my kids are respectful, responsible and excellent students . i have a relationship with my kids where they fear disappointing me more than they fear me beating them. now i know this dont work for everyone but i grew up getting my @!% whooped and i was determined to prove that you can raise your kids and have them respect you without going to that extreme.
i talk to my kids all the time, i teach them and i show concern with their lives. you'd be surprised at the power of honesty and communication . sometimes i understand there comes a time where you have to go to that extreme to get your point across but if you had communication from day one you'd be surprised at the result . wish all you guys luck with your families ........
I commend you, it's the right thing in my opinion.Originally Posted by onewearz
i got three kids , 13, 12, 6
i don't hit them and neither does my wife. my kids are respectful, responsible and excellent students . i have a relationship with my kids where they fear disappointing me more than they fear me beating them. now i know this dont work for everyone but i grew up getting my @!% whooped and i was determined to prove that you can raise your kids and have them respect you without going to that extreme.
i talk to my kids all the time, i teach them and i show concern with their lives. you'd be surprised at the power of honesty and communication . sometimes i understand there comes a time where you have to go to that extreme to get your point across but if you had communication from day one you'd be surprised at the result . wish all you guys luck with your families ........
I agree with this. I don't want to make it sound like America>all but yeah America>all. In my mother's case all she knew was physical punishment until she moved to America. In Nigeria when I was in preschool they'd hit you with rulers if you get an answer wrong or do something bad.Originally Posted by lyricist343
I believe only outside of america it is still deemed a form of discipline.
Originally Posted by snakeyes17
I commend you, it's the right thing in my opinion.Originally Posted by onewearz
i got three kids , 13, 12, 6
i don't hit them and neither does my wife. my kids are respectful, responsible and excellent students . i have a relationship with my kids where they fear disappointing me more than they fear me beating them. now i know this dont work for everyone but i grew up getting my @!% whooped and i was determined to prove that you can raise your kids and have them respect you without going to that extreme.
i talk to my kids all the time, i teach them and i show concern with their lives. you'd be surprised at the power of honesty and communication . sometimes i understand there comes a time where you have to go to that extreme to get your point across but if you had communication from day one you'd be surprised at the result . wish all you guys luck with your families ........
I agree with this. I don't want to make it sound like America>all but yeah America>all. In my mother's case all she knew was physical punishment until she moved to America. In Nigeria when I was in preschool they'd hit you with rulers if you get an answer wrong or do something bad.Originally Posted by lyricist343
I believe only outside of america it is still deemed a form of discipline.
Originally Posted by snakeyes17
I commend you, it's the right thing in my opinion.Originally Posted by onewearz
i got three kids , 13, 12, 6
i don't hit them and neither does my wife. my kids are respectful, responsible and excellent students . i have a relationship with my kids where they fear disappointing me more than they fear me beating them. now i know this dont work for everyone but i grew up getting my @!% whooped and i was determined to prove that you can raise your kids and have them respect you without going to that extreme.
i talk to my kids all the time, i teach them and i show concern with their lives. you'd be surprised at the power of honesty and communication . sometimes i understand there comes a time where you have to go to that extreme to get your point across but if you had communication from day one you'd be surprised at the result . wish all you guys luck with your families ........
Originally Posted by IMASOLEMAN18
according to the state of illinois spanking is child abuse smh
Originally Posted by IMASOLEMAN18
according to the state of illinois spanking is child abuse smh
JordanHead718212 wrote:
Its right. Spanking, getting slapped, etc is a huge thing in Africa and the difference in behavior between African kids and American kids is quite noticeable. I feel as this is partly due to the fact that Africans spank their kids as discipline.
I agree 100% my moms from Nigeria and I definitely turned out better than most of my friends from my neighborhood