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And I'd like to know why they hold it so dearly. If it's the values and morals then they can still have that without religion. If all it comes down to is wanting their to be an afterlife and the peace of mind that you'll be in a better place then that's something personal to them they shouldn't be arguing if they aren't willing to accept that it doesn't make sense given all the other options/possibilities and how it was presented/indoctrinated to them. If they refuse to realize that, they should refuse to be a sparring partner. I don't see how I can be held accountable for someone being mad about an argument they chose to be involved in, especially if they're gonna claim they're being attacked or disrespected. I said it before but discussion shouldn't be shaking their faith since they should've already asked themselves similar questions. If they're too sensitive about this they should recognize that and bow out.
I'm intrigued by the human response to momma snaps. It's my contention that words can't hurt you and that aggressive defenses of a woman's "honor" are base and irrational.
To sate my intellectual curiosity, I plan to publicly insult your fat, ugly, ignorant mother in order to gauge your response. I've also brought along a bunch of my friends, who aren't intellectually curious as such, but find momma snaps hilarious. In order to engage you, I'm going to stake out my turf someplace that I know you frequent. It could be the gym, it could be a park, it could be a store. Whatever. I'll be there, and I'll have just as much right to be there as you.
If you'd prefer not to engage, you can either endure my ridicule or cede this ground to me in order to avoid my harassment. Don't want me to insult your mother and be laughed at? Well, I guess you shouldn't have gone to the gym then. If you're too sensitive to endure harassment, don't go out in public.
And really, what's the harm? They're not blind. They already know their mothers are fat. I'm simply revealing the truth to them in a clever way.
Well for one, I think the OP was trolling with this thread
And, if that is the case, I suppose you think we should allow that, what, since they're just words and all.
Yo don't tolerate intolerance. That's not how cultural relativism works.
You're assuming that the core of religion is intolerance. People used to cite the bible to justify overt racism and sexism. You don't see that as much these days, do you? Religions are capable of reform precisely because their texts, much like the data we interpret in the sciences, are subject to interpretation.
Faith-based movements have contributed a great deal to social justice.
This is where I disagree. Saying the electron is the smallest particle and then discovering on a subquantum level that quarks or w/e else found were actually the smallest is not in any way the same as eugenics. Scientists are suppose to be impartial to the evidence. There isn't suppose to be a hidden agenda. Just because we find new evidence that changes or discards a scientific theory held in high regard does not make that theory and it's entire study pseudoscience. It's science because it can be objectively tested, experimented on without foul play or secret motive.
Unfortunately, if something is being passed off as science and is accepted by the masses we can only look at it as pseudoscience in hindsight, until the truth of the matter is revealed. Upsetting as it may be that's the case when humans are involved.
But the "truth of the matter" isn't invariably revealed. The paradigm is simply replaced - and it isn't necessarily replaced with "the truth." Rather, it's supplanted by an idea that better suits the current sociocultural environment.
Can anyone tell me the flaw in not believing before having some support or evidence for a claim?
You can ask the average atheist "why does matter exist" and the average Christian "who created God" and both explanations will likely be pretty much the same. ("It/he always existed" or "It/he simply emerged from nothing.")
There's more common ground there than you might think and it's important to encourage, not discount, the ability of religious ideologies to adapt and change.
Instead, what this is creating is an overly simplistic binary opposition, not unlike how the TBONE political troll threads progressed. It's less about position than affiliation. Case in point, useless, counterproductive replies like this:
Religious people - 1
Aspiring scumbags - 0
When you frame the discussion as secular vs. spiritual, all you're doing is creating a spiral of defensive responses. Everyone feels attacked by association.
Your actual problem doesn't seem to be about religion per se so much as its misuse. The old cliche, "if you accept your opponent's framing, you've already lost," applies in this regard.
If someone were to say "atheists are pompous, condescending, and sophomoric," it's difficult not to take offense at that if you're included by association. That framing immediately puts you on the defensive. It's not only adversarial, but adversarial on a personal level. You're not just talking about ideas in the abstract; you're defending yourself and, perhaps, peers and family, against an attack.
The upsetting thing about all of this is that it seems that this is actually what some of you want. If you're concerned about the causes of broad-scale social conflict, more fundamental than religious strife is sectarianism, and it seems as though that, rather than mutual understanding, is what you're actually producing here.
But your right maybe one of the atheists NTers should make an official atheist thread and keep it all in there.
That seems like it would be a solution everyone could live with. Clearly the existing strategy has produced far more heat than light.
Oh dear God, I hope we're not being like TBONE. But yes, some *ahem* have taken it overboard by posting a thread about religion every. single. day. I don't assert that all Christians are bigots because of what the Westboro Baptist Church does. Did I do that somehow? What we do is go straight to the text that is the basis of the hate spewed by the WBC, and we call them out on it. But for clarification, can we ridicule the concept of God, religious scriptures, and anyone that is not an NT member who spouts religious nonsense? It seems like we can if you can ridicule Sarah Palin for her beliefs.
I had a feeling the TBONE comparison would hit home. Sorry, but that's exactly how some of you are coming across right now.
A lot of this is perpetuating itself because of the sectarianism. Some people seem to be starting these threads because they know there's a built-in audience that will reward them for it. Don't. You're helping them make us all look bad. Don't laugh when they insult others. Tell them that, although you agree with their ideas, you don't agree with their presentation. Refuse to participate in their threads and make it clear: we've had enough already and this is making it far more difficult for you to have a meaningful and respectful discussion that you'd actually enjoy. They're doing this stuff to impress you. Stop encouraging it.
As far as NT rules go, let me clarify this way:
I think Kobe Bryant is overrated. Surely, I'm entitled to that opinion. If there's a game day thread or a playoff series thread involving the Lakers, I can express that view if I like. What I can't do is call Kobe fans idiots. What I can't do is go into the Lakers season thread and start trolling. What I can't do is start a post every single time Kobe has a bad run or misses a shot with the game on the line. In short, I can't be a jerk about it.
I don't have a problem with creating a thread to discuss Bill O'Reilly's "if there's no God, how come the tide goes in and out" rant. That's fine. It's the constant trolling, insults, and personal disrespect shown towards others that I find so problematic. Let's face it, some of you guys enjoy getting people upset in this thread. That should be your first indication that something's wrong. Personally, I don't think some of you are being entirely honest with yourselves regarding your methods or your motives.