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Originally Posted by Stay Lurkin
Man, I've been dating this girl for a couple months and we like each other a lot there is no question. Lately, we have both been mad busy so we haven't seen each other much. Last Sunday night we met up at iggys for a drink or two and talked. Things were cool until I said something.... I asked her if she would ever come to the sand dunes with me and my friends. She said yea.... and I was like "You can drive seperate if you'd like (she has a kid and she likes to drive seperate just in case something goes down at the sitters) just in case you have to leave." And before I finish she jumps the gun and says,"See that's why I can't get close to you. You always put me last. If there is something better to do...you go and do it. If your plans don't go through...then you call me asking to hangout." <<<"That's not true." Since I was still talking when she jumped the gun I was gonna say, "Well actually just come with me and if you have to leave we will leave together." So it kinda @+$!#@ up the mood. It made me feel really bad because she is a sweetheart and It hurts to know that that's how she thinks of me. I apologized and she said it was cool and it seemed all good. Over the next couple of days, she texts me the normal "hey cutie/hun/babe" "you're so sweet/handsome" stuff like that. I apologize for my alleged behavior a couple more times and she says that it's all good. So I start thinking that I should try a bit harder and show her that I care...... So yesterday at about 12:45 pm I sent her flowers. She was mad busy at work and couldn't text back but she texted me around 12:00 and asked "are you doing ok". I said yeah and she didn't text back. No biggie, she's busy. So I'm like she gonna be mad suprised when she gets home and she is gonna call me all happy and stuff. 11 PM...no call or text. I'm like.... I know the flowers were delivered because the shop didn't call me back. So now its 2:30 the next day and still no reply? What the hell happened? I texted her good morning and it is very odd for her to not write back. Cliffnotes -Me and a girl I'm talking to got in a mild misunderstanding. -Made up and I sent her flowers a few days later -A whole 24 hours later and no reply. -Its very odd -I'm freaking out P.S. No pics. I honestly don't have any and she doesn't have a FB. I have tried to get pics of her but she won't let me
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qftOriginally Posted by rafsjays
took her that long to respond?
Originally Posted by DOWNTOWN43
OP i actually read through your posts and you are a simp.
this situation really did not warrant flowers. all the flowers did was make you look insecure of yourself, as if you're afraid you aren't good enough for her so you have to try harder to keep her around.
Sorry bro but you come off as a simp. You did not do anything wrong, she is the one that overreacted, you apologized away, and things you saidappears to be fine. Then as a result of her overreacting you start feeling guilty, seen her flowers and get scared because she doesn't contact you rightaway. This girl knows she got you wrap around her finger.... Plus she got a $#%$%*! kid. Be careful with the broad, you are nowhere near her number onepriority.Originally Posted by Stay Lurkin
Originally Posted by DOWNTOWN43
OP i actually read through your posts and you are a simp.
this situation really did not warrant flowers. all the flowers did was make you look insecure of yourself, as if you're afraid you aren't good enough for her so you have to try harder to keep her around.
How am I a SIMP?
I sent her flowers because I wanted to (and she loved them). Why can't I send a girl that I'm dating flowers? And who said that I don't think I'm good enough? I know I didn't.
Originally Posted by RustyShackleford
Sorry bro but you come off as a simp. You did not do anything wrong, she is the one that overreacted, you apologized away, and things you said appears to be fine. Then as a result of her overreacting you start feeling guilty, seen her flowers and get scared because she doesn't contact you right away. This girl knows she got you wrap around her finger.... Plus she got a $#%$%*! kid. Be careful with the broad, you are nowhere near her number one priority.Originally Posted by Stay Lurkin
Originally Posted by DOWNTOWN43
OP i actually read through your posts and you are a simp.
this situation really did not warrant flowers. all the flowers did was make you look insecure of yourself, as if you're afraid you aren't good enough for her so you have to try harder to keep her around.
How am I a SIMP?
I sent her flowers because I wanted to (and she loved them). Why can't I send a girl that I'm dating flowers? And who said that I don't think I'm good enough? I know I didn't.
Ok I understand your feelings, you did something special for your girl and she appeared to react in a way at confused and scared you (because youobviously have feelings for her).Originally Posted by Stay Lurkin
Originally Posted by RustyShackleford
Sorry bro but you come off as a simp. You did not do anything wrong, she is the one that overreacted, you apologized away, and things you said appears to be fine. Then as a result of her overreacting you start feeling guilty, seen her flowers and get scared because she doesn't contact you right away. This girl knows she got you wrap around her finger.... Plus she got a $#%$%*! kid. Be careful with the broad, you are nowhere near her number one priority.Originally Posted by Stay Lurkin
Originally Posted by DOWNTOWN43
OP i actually read through your posts and you are a simp.
this situation really did not warrant flowers. all the flowers did was make you look insecure of yourself, as if you're afraid you aren't good enough for her so you have to try harder to keep her around.
How am I a SIMP?
I sent her flowers because I wanted to (and she loved them). Why can't I send a girl that I'm dating flowers? And who said that I don't think I'm good enough? I know I didn't.
I see what you are saying, I just still think you don't understand the situation completetly though.
We talk everyday. Even if its simple stuff like "hi, i'm going into work now so I will text when I can." Even though it sounds crazy, and I sound like a SIMP, its really ODD that she wouldn't send at least 1 text throughout that entire time frame. I really think that anyone would have been like "damn".....
And ESPECIALLY, after I had sent her flowers just to brighten up her day. Just sayin....I think anyone else would have kinda been like.....
cosignOriginally Posted by DOWNTOWN43
OP i actually read through your posts and you are a simp.
this situation really did not warrant flowers. all the flowers did was make you look insecure of yourself, as if you're afraid you aren't good enough for her so you have to try harder to keep her around.
Originally Posted by Stay Lurkin
Originally Posted by DOWNTOWN43
OP i actually read through your posts and you are a simp.
this situation really did not warrant flowers. all the flowers did was make you look insecure of yourself, as if you're afraid you aren't good enough for her so you have to try harder to keep her around.
How am I a SIMP?
I sent her flowers because I wanted to (and she loved them). Why can't I send a girl that I'm dating flowers? And who said that I don't think I'm good enough? I know I didn't.
Originally Posted by thytkerjobs
The dude is not a simp for sending flowers. If it was a daily thing, ok maybe he'd be a simp. He was going through rough times with his girl and wanted to show her he cared. I see nothing wrong with that.
Originally Posted by MR MONDAY NIIGHT
You seem desperate my dude...people can tell when you're desperate and it's a turn off.
Exactly. She took so long because she didn't want to come off as "giving the OP the wrong impression". I'd ignore her and moveon. Save yourself the trouble.Originally Posted by Russ tha G
Girls love flowers. There's no way she would go 27 hours without giving you a thank you if she even remotely cared about you.