Serious question...Has anyone here dated a woman with a kid?

[jaywalkinsince91]

I've been down that road, it was a long time in the making and happened to become official around the time little man turned 3 months, it was a sobering experience to say the least but short lived

( We fall out alot but still talk). At the end of the day I have no regrets but that's cause I knew before hand what I was getting into and understood I was just an addition, so at the end of the day don't create false hopes of stepping into the dads shoes, let the kid decide who you'll be to them instead of forcing the whole " I'm your new daddy" idea on them

 

[jawnyquest]

Originally Posted by KWIET ONE

I have and I will NEVER do it, again.

We were together for 3 years. Her daughter is 6. The reason that I would never do it, again, is not because of the kid, rather that her and I got so close, then when we broke up, it was like I had lost MY kid. Never again. Way too gut wrenching.

word. that $%+$ burns.

 

[jawnyquest]

Originally Posted by KWIET ONE

I have and I will NEVER do it, again.

We were together for 3 years. Her daughter is 6. The reason that I would never do it, again, is not because of the kid, rather that her and I got so close, then when we broke up, it was like I had lost MY kid. Never again. Way too gut wrenching.

word. that $%+$ burns.

 

[mf doomer]

yeah and i couldn't get down cause her kids were in the way. it was this past summer, and i couldn't do it again unless she was ill.

 

[mf doomer]

yeah and i couldn't get down cause her kids were in the way. it was this past summer, and i couldn't do it again unless she was ill.

 

[dugtrio]

i would if she wasn't expecting me to be the new father.  i got a kid, so it would be kind of nice to be on the same page with a girl for once.  instead of them *****ing because they don't get enough attention.  

 

[dugtrio]

i would if she wasn't expecting me to be the new father.  i got a kid, so it would be kind of nice to be on the same page with a girl for once.  instead of them *****ing because they don't get enough attention.  

 

[23mcpizzle23]

Yes multiple times its not a big deal just be ready to be #2 in her life, to be honest i like it that way chicks with kids should always be worried about there kids 1st so most wont be on your back all the time...

 

[23mcpizzle23]

Yes multiple times its not a big deal just be ready to be #2 in her life, to be honest i like it that way chicks with kids should always be worried about there kids 1st so most wont be on your back all the time...

 

[23mcpizzle23]

Yes multiple times its not a big deal just be ready to be #2 in her life, to be honest i like it that way chicks with kids should always be worried about there kids 1st so most wont be on your back all the time...

 

[23mcpizzle23]

Yes multiple times its not a big deal just be ready to be #2 in her life, to be honest i like it that way chicks with kids should always be worried about there kids 1st so most wont be on your back all the time...

 

[bgl2687]

Currently talking to one, but nothing serious. I'll shall see where it goes. Any suggestions?

 

[bgl2687]

Currently talking to one, but nothing serious. I'll shall see where it goes. Any suggestions?

 

[ricky robot]

Originally Posted by casekicks

I have and I actually married her and we have a son together..And I gotta be honest, the only thing we ever fight about is her kid..Money, bills, house, chores, none of it is ever that big of an issue..But when it comes to her kid, then it's a pure migraine..She has the stinkiest, laziest, sneekiest child I've ever met and you can't trust her as far as you could throw her..And my wife is always quick to defend her no matter what she does, which leads to arguments..Hopefully her daughter will mature, she's almost 12, and things will be more peaceful around here..But if not then atleast she'll only be here for a few more years.

 

[ricky robot]

Originally Posted by casekicks

I have and I actually married her and we have a son together..And I gotta be honest, the only thing we ever fight about is her kid..Money, bills, house, chores, none of it is ever that big of an issue..But when it comes to her kid, then it's a pure migraine..She has the stinkiest, laziest, sneekiest child I've ever met and you can't trust her as far as you could throw her..And my wife is always quick to defend her no matter what she does, which leads to arguments..Hopefully her daughter will mature, she's almost 12, and things will be more peaceful around here..But if not then atleast she'll only be here for a few more years.

 

[young dr0]

Originally Posted by KWIET ONE

I have and I will NEVER do it, again.

We were together for 3 years. Her daughter is 6. The reason that I would never do it, again, is not because of the kid, rather that her and I got so close, then when we broke up, it was like I had lost MY kid. Never again. Way too gut wrenching.

[color= rgb(153, 255, 204)]basically. do NOT get attached to the kid.  i've seen too many guys stretch out relationships b/c they loved the kid and liked the chick on some Jerry Maguire type ****.[/color]

[color= rgb(153, 255, 204)]do NOT let them lil MFers call you daddy.  nothing wrong w/ being nice but nah.  just don't get invested emotionally.[/color]

[color= rgb(153, 255, 204)]and don't get caught up in it b/c some females know this and will try to push the kid on you bc most kids if you are around them long enough or often enough they'll get attached to you.  and most dude give the kids treats or buy em toys and **** trying to get in good.  and all the child knows is "he give me stuff" so the child doesn't care.[/color]

 

[young dr0]

Originally Posted by KWIET ONE

I have and I will NEVER do it, again.

We were together for 3 years. Her daughter is 6. The reason that I would never do it, again, is not because of the kid, rather that her and I got so close, then when we broke up, it was like I had lost MY kid. Never again. Way too gut wrenching.

[color= rgb(153, 255, 204)]basically. do NOT get attached to the kid.  i've seen too many guys stretch out relationships b/c they loved the kid and liked the chick on some Jerry Maguire type ****.[/color]

[color= rgb(153, 255, 204)]do NOT let them lil MFers call you daddy.  nothing wrong w/ being nice but nah.  just don't get invested emotionally.[/color]

[color= rgb(153, 255, 204)]and don't get caught up in it b/c some females know this and will try to push the kid on you bc most kids if you are around them long enough or often enough they'll get attached to you.  and most dude give the kids treats or buy em toys and **** trying to get in good.  and all the child knows is "he give me stuff" so the child doesn't care.[/color]

 

[solewoman]

my ex had a son. but the kid lived in another state. i kinda wasnt ok with that because I felt like he shoulda been closer to his son. Either way not going to make that mistake again. so been there done that got a t-shirt and burned it.

 

[solewoman]

my ex had a son. but the kid lived in another state. i kinda wasnt ok with that because I felt like he shoulda been closer to his son. Either way not going to make that mistake again. so been there done that got a t-shirt and burned it.

 

[snaggykicks]

Id smash one with a kid be with no thanks

 

[snaggykicks]

Id smash one with a kid be with no thanks

 

[snaggykicks]

Id smash one with a kid be with no thanks

 

[snaggykicks]

Id smash one with a kid be with no thanks

 

[manny1]

not this topic again. every month this question comes up. OP if your single with no kids then i suggest you not get into a relationship with a girl with kids. if so be ready to have your freedom taken away from you. if you are expecting on having all the attention and wanting to go out every weekend just the two of you then dont bother. if you’re just going to smash or have it on the side then by all means go right ahead.

 

[manny1]

not this topic again. every month this question comes up. OP if your single with no kids then i suggest you not get into a relationship with a girl with kids. if so be ready to have your freedom taken away from you. if you are expecting on having all the attention and wanting to go out every weekend just the two of you then dont bother. if you’re just going to smash or have it on the side then by all means go right ahead.