I don't see what's wrong with him saying the N word, black people say it all the time
Kevin Garnett says it 8 times a game.
I don't know what's worse: if you two are trolling or if you're sincere with this.
This attitude is absolutely disgusting. If you have a girlfriend and your relationship is such that she allows you to playfully call her out of name, does that then give every person on Earth the right to do the same? Let's say you do call your girlfriend disrespectful names. Her brother doesn't care. Her sister and her parents hate it. Do I not only have the right to call her WHATEVER names you do, but to tell her sister and her parents to stop whining about it? Do I get to decide what everyone else considers offensive in that situation?
The logic you're dealing with here just strikes me as impossibly short-sighted and, frankly,
dangerous. It's almost like a pervert trying to tear a Victoria's Secret model's clothes off on the street because "she walks around like that on magazine covers all the time. Therefore, I have the right to see her like that whenever I want" or, WORSE, that because SOME women pose for lingerie ads that you then have the right to tear ANY woman's clothes off because that's what, according to the media, "her kind" does? "
They (women) do it all the time. They call it each other tramps. They parade around in their underwear in music videos, movies, and tv ads. It's part of their culture. If that's the case, that's how I should be able to treat all women whenever I want."
It's sick, truly sick. You see (or hear) someone do something that you don't even think is right, and that somehow gives you license to do it WHENEVER you want knowing full well that it is deeply hurtful to others?!
Really, is this your moral code? You can call Nelson Mandela a racial slur because Kevin Garnett said it on the basketball court? That is
MASSIVELY ignorant.
It's patently obvious that you're looking for an excuse (
any excuse) to say it. The question is: WHY? Why is it so important to you to say it? Why do you NEED that right?
Using the word gay as that's gay is becoming less acceptable because there's a movement. Homosexuals have taken a stand, they are telling the word that gays are acceptable and comparing something wack, not good to gay is not going to fly anymore.
Wait, are you suggesting that racial slurs are okay because nobody's "taken a stand" against it?!?! Are you
serious right now?
So the thousands upon thousands of people who've declared - publicly - in the last few years alone that it is UNACCEPTABLE and OFFENSIVE for you to utter that slur means what to you, nothing?
We can cherry pick examples of people within the LGBT community using heterosexist slurs. You can see it in certain movies, too. At what point do you accept that it's okay for them but NOT for you because you do NOT have the right to make that determination?
How many people have to appear on television (because clearly that's where your'e getting your information from) and remind you that this is, and always has been, an offensive term before it actually sinks in?
This idea that you can say whatever offensive thing you want because you heard somebody say it on TV, in a movie, or in a rap song is a steaming load of privileged garbage.
That's really what it boils down to for me. You hear it said and you just can't STAND that you don't have the "right" to say it yourself, especially if it's considered "cool." Well, many people DON'T think it's cool or glamorous. Many people
do consider it denigrating.
And that's the one constant in all of this that all of these flimsy rationalizations fail to nullify or even acknowledge.
You want to say something that you KNOW to be hurtful and offensive.... because, what, other people "get away with it" and you feel left out? I can hardly imagine a more pathetic excuse for willfully, if not SPITEFULLY, wielding hateful and offensive language.
We're talking about intentionally saying something that you have NO right to say and that you KNOW to be offensive to others, seemingly just because you can't stand being without ANY privilege, no matter how minor or trivial.
As if that weren't enough, you also want to be immune from any and all consequences associated with the offense the slur was CREATED to inspire.
I just find that utterly repulsive on every level.