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Do you think that a relationship is sound if there are certain topics you can't discuss with your partner? I mean in a sense of your girl could be going onand on and on about something that she is passionate about and you are just like "baby...I don't wanna hear about that $%!@ right now
" And I use that smiley face instead of this one "
"or this one"
" because you deep down respect their beliefs, but you honestly justaren't there with them on that particular subject. And it somewhat bothers you that it's something youcan't be more open towards and want to discuss.
Now, we are not talking about superficial things like your love for a certain TV show, or how you don't approve of guys who wear skinny jeans, I'mtalkin' about major things. Like, you are an avid animal rights activist and that is something that is near dear to your heart and you incorporate it intoyour lifestye.......but your girl really could care less---could you be with someone like that? Or you are really into religion....could you date someone whowasn't on it like that? (this one especially) You always on some "thus said the Lord" and she is like "yea...uh uh.....that'scool" and is honestly just waiting for you to be done so you could move on to the next subject. Politics, world views, philosohpical views, racial/ethnicpride, etc.
Is it safe to build a relationship on that kinda rocky foundation? Given that everything else is a-ok, but it's just that ONE thing that ya'll reallycan't come together on.
Now, we are not talking about superficial things like your love for a certain TV show, or how you don't approve of guys who wear skinny jeans, I'mtalkin' about major things. Like, you are an avid animal rights activist and that is something that is near dear to your heart and you incorporate it intoyour lifestye.......but your girl really could care less---could you be with someone like that? Or you are really into religion....could you date someone whowasn't on it like that? (this one especially) You always on some "thus said the Lord" and she is like "yea...uh uh.....that'scool" and is honestly just waiting for you to be done so you could move on to the next subject. Politics, world views, philosohpical views, racial/ethnicpride, etc.
Is it safe to build a relationship on that kinda rocky foundation? Given that everything else is a-ok, but it's just that ONE thing that ya'll reallycan't come together on.