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I cover the food and drinks. We split bills down the middle. She covers the indo.
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I guess I know a good amount of chicks that are down for their dudes and willing to pay more for their dude and the relationship.
As of right now, she paying all the bills rent food some of my clothes gas to school and home, when we go out (not so often). Only because I'm going to school, once I'm done I'll be returning the favor only because she wants to get rid of 80% or more of her loans. After that we'll get a joint account and agree to put in X amount for bills, food, outings and saving for vacations.
If a girls willing to do all that for you..... I'll probably be the one thats crying if I'm on one knee and she says yes.
Man my problem went I first got into POF and things was i was taking chics on too expensive of dates. I wasn't trying to stunt or impress them or anything, was just doing stuff i am normally into; playoff games, concerts, nice dinners, etc. So naturally being where some of these jawns is from, they attracted off the jump (although they obviously were to an enough of an extent already to agree to go out with me). If I end up in the dating pool again, I'm checking that from day 1, AppleBee's 2 for 20 with half priced apps after 9 and $1.99 Long Islands plus dutch or you pick me up.Where do y'all even find chicks like that? Stop.
This...
I've met a few women like this before. I tell them that if I (or any man) is going to cover ALL expenses for them then they should have no problem being controlled by their BF. Don't wanna hear that "I'm a strong independent woman" ****.
In my opinion. If the man is serious about the woman, the man pays for absolutely everything for at least the first 6 months. if not longer.. I feel like it's the man's job to assure the woman that he can maintain a certain level of reliability. As well as establish leadership and gain respect. I feel this is important if you plan on wearing the pants in the relationship. Establish dominance if you will(money,power,respect).. Allow her to see that you're all in. And that you've invested not only time, but money.. Now at this point she should be comfortable enough to know that you are serious about her, and that you are able to give her and maintain a sense of security on your end.. Now after this time period of 6 months is over and you've put in that work physically, financially and emotionally. it's about time to see what she's talking about as far as her financially reliability goes. Is she capable of having your back on a rainy day or even matching you step for step.. Throughout this entire time you guys have been dating she should have already displayed the want to pick up bills and pay for things while you guys are out and about. Although you've never let her.. She should have great recognition of how you never let her pay for anything and she should be waiting for her chance to take you out and give back what you've given to her.. That's when you finally let her take you out.. At that point you should have no problem splinting everything 50/50 from there on out. That's exactly how it went with me and my wife and it's the best decision I ever made(she has so much more money than me). Our daughter is 11 and I wish some dirty dog would try to make my babygirl pay for a dang thing when she gets older. just my humble opinion and personal experience..
I feel this. When me and my girl got together, i took care of everything, when Im struggling, she looks out for me
but what if yall share accounts and she makes 25k more in salary....how does it matter then?Im a man I'm supposed to provide
I have no problem paying bills and taking care of a woman who takes care of me in her own way.
50/50 is cool when you first meet, but if y'all together different story
In my opinion. If the man is serious about the woman, the man pays for absolutely everything for at least the first 6 months. if not longer.. I feel like it's the man's job to assure the woman that he can maintain a certain level of reliability. As well as establish leadership and gain respect. I feel this is important if you plan on wearing the pants in the relationship. Establish dominance if you will(money,power,respect).. Allow her to see that you're all in. And that you've invested not only time, but money.. Now at this point she should be comfortable enough to know that you are serious about her, and that you are able to give her and maintain a sense of security on your end.. Now after this time period of 6 months is over and you've put in that work physically, financially and emotionally. it's about time to see what she's talking about as far as her financially reliability goes. Is she capable of having your back on a rainy day or even matching you step for step.. Throughout this entire time you guys have been dating she should have already displayed the want to pick up bills and pay for things while you guys are out and about. Although you've never let her.. She should have great recognition of how you never let her pay for anything and she should be waiting for her chance to take you out and give back what you've given to her.. That's when you finally let her take you out.. At that point you should have no problem splinting everything 50/50 from there on out. That's exactly how it went with me and my wife and it's the best decision I ever made(she has so much more money than me). Our daughter is 11 and I wish some dirty dog would try to make my babygirl pay for a dang thing when she gets older. just my humble opinion and personal experience..
I paid for everything and made her quit her job and move in. I was making $26/h and getting over time like mugg. Now after my accounts been depleted and in on a new contract, sent her back to work.
Her doe is my doe, my doe is my doe, live & learn