- Sep 20, 2005
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So me and this girl have been hooking up for about three months now. When we first started hooking up it was under the pretense that that would be that. No feelings or anything. So we've been hooking up and about a month in she drunk-BBM's me saying something along the lines of, "Hey so I never do this but I caught feelings and it sucks but I want you." So I know she's drunk and ignore her and we talk about it in the morning and re-establish the boundaries and things are all cool for another month or so. But she's been getting on my nerves lately because she just shows up at my apartment on the weekends to party without announcing and I'll have plans to go out and she'll want to tag along.
So last night my roommate had a party at our place and I wasn't really feeling it and once again she showed up unannounced. So I dip out to a friend's party and she texts asking where I went. I tell her I went to my boys and I'll be back later she can crash in my bed. So I didn't wanna risk a DUI and crashed on my boys couch. Then today I'm at a party, she shows up unannounced again. Somehow it leaks that she had sex with one of my best friends for like 7 years in my roommate's bed last night while I was gone. She starts crying, blah blah blah. I'm not like sad or anything so much as just dissapointed in her, my boy, and my roommate. Y'all think I have a right? I understand there was an agreement of no feelings and I wouldn't be mad if she banged some random dude at a house party, I would've cared less. But she hooked up with my boy in my apartment which I feel is a line that shouldn't be crossed.
Cliff Notes:
-Me and girl hook up with understanding of no feelings
-She catches feelings but we re-establish the no-feelings boundary
-She comes to a party at my apartment that I leave because I wasn't feeling
-She decides it appropriate to have sex with one of my best friends in my apartment
So last night my roommate had a party at our place and I wasn't really feeling it and once again she showed up unannounced. So I dip out to a friend's party and she texts asking where I went. I tell her I went to my boys and I'll be back later she can crash in my bed. So I didn't wanna risk a DUI and crashed on my boys couch. Then today I'm at a party, she shows up unannounced again. Somehow it leaks that she had sex with one of my best friends for like 7 years in my roommate's bed last night while I was gone. She starts crying, blah blah blah. I'm not like sad or anything so much as just dissapointed in her, my boy, and my roommate. Y'all think I have a right? I understand there was an agreement of no feelings and I wouldn't be mad if she banged some random dude at a house party, I would've cared less. But she hooked up with my boy in my apartment which I feel is a line that shouldn't be crossed.
Cliff Notes:
-Me and girl hook up with understanding of no feelings
-She catches feelings but we re-establish the no-feelings boundary
-She comes to a party at my apartment that I leave because I wasn't feeling
-She decides it appropriate to have sex with one of my best friends in my apartment
