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Originally Posted by Name I Koop
HEAR HEAR!!!!Originally Posted by UnkleTomCruze
Originally Posted by nom de guerre
Why do some women need hair weaves? They need to let it grow out and stop messing with it. Her scalp obviously has been messed with for years now. Hopefully this is a wake up call to some women who continue to still use weaves and relaxers. Natural curly hair>
QFT on everything you've typed.
But at the end of the day, the blame cannot be put on the women alone. (Because this kind of hair damage is more potent in the black community, I'll limit my critique to just that--the black community).
If NT is any evidence, natural or stereotypical (not used in a negative context) black features (in women) are not considered superlative, especially when juxtaposed to white and/or latina features.
Rarely will you see a black woman praised on here unless she has already augmented herself (her naturalness) to fit a standard of beauty which has already been determined by white women (white men implicitly) and latina women.
Naomi Campbell is a perfect example. She lives and works in an industry that sells and distributes what the white mans idea of what beauty is. For her to be successful in this industry, or at the very least, fit into it, she had to augment herself. I mean, while no one physically forced her to do what she did, the fact is, psychologically, she had no choice.
And that same mentality trickles down into the black community. You can't be a beautiful black woman unless you perm your hair to be straight like that of your white/latina/asian cohorts, when naturally, straight hair is very rare in the black community. You cant be viewed as a dime or anything close unless you're light "skinneded" (yes I'm very much aware of how I spelled it.) Ohh and we certainly can't forget about how your natural physique is considered "FAT" (a point that is only the case because white women are the standard of comparison).
When all is said and done, Naomi (and many other black women) has reached this stage because men have communicated that white features are the standard. So in attempt to access that "standard", she puts all that chemical junk in her hair and this is the end result. A sadder point is the fact that black men cosign this nonsense, much to the peril of black women.
**Waits for the usual "crowd", that can always be found downplaying black-related issues, to make an appearance and attempt to write off everything that I've stated**
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Society is !+!$%$* with our heads...literally and figuratively... free thought is very uncommon....like the man said, just look around this forum...
but y'all don't hear him, though.