Porn does a lot more harm than good and is a serious problem

34 pages huh, who knew porn had so much nuance

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"No fap" is some bull**** quackery if I've ever seen it.

Funny how you can smash multiple times a day and that's not a problem, but fapping somehow is. Do you think your body actually knows the difference?

I did no fap for a month and now I can run a mile in four minutes and also breathe underwater
 
I still can't figure out how it went from No Fap November, to No Nut November. Who made this decision
 
**** it, I'll admit this online for the public record...I might watch maybe 10 minutes of porn yearly...doesn't really do it.

of course, that doesn't make me any better than the next man and I obviously get it since I dig women but yeah.

with all that typed, I could also see how a constant diet of porn could affect your perspectives of women and sex.

on NNN, I view it like I view a Polar Bear Club...you all keep each other coming back, but...weird. for me.

I guess this is a long way of saying "subscribed."
 
Guys making a pact with other guys on when to jerk off always sounded weird.

You can pick any other month and do it without broadcasting it to the world...
I say this to myself any time I see the thread on the first page and a few times in that thread.

A bunch of dudes deciding together they won't jerk off for a month or more, discussing their progress of abstaining, and talking about close calls where they almost jerked off is the most gayest non-gay thing I've ever heard of. Imagine that thread if everyone was together in person.

It's kinda proves to me that porn addiction and sex addiction is real and that whole detachment from reality is serious. Threads read like _____ anonymous meetings lite.

Yep, also those who do it often are typically viewing women who don't look like the women they'd be in bed with and the need they may have to quickly find a "rush" when watching porn frequently

There most definitely is a difference for what your body/brain is experiencing
Yeah but without the internet or porn those kinds of ppl would still be anti-social and maladjusted leading to them most likely dying alone.
 
Yeah the idea of turning this into a support group of sorts is...odd, to say the least.

I just don't get it. Is porn impacting your ability to meet women? Is it impacting your sexual performance (lol how)? What is it about fapping and watching porn that is ruining your life? Is porn distorting your view of sex like you're some kid who is obsessed with violent video games to the point where he can't effectively discern fantasy from reality? What kind of porn are you watching that would cause these types of feelings? I've got a lot of questions.

I'm in a committed relationship, but you're gonna have to pry the porn from my cold, dead hands. There's room for both.
 
We have support groups for alcohol, smoking, gambling etc but porn? "oh it's gay to talk about it. Keep it to yourself"
People with real addictions need real help.

Talking about jerking off with strangers online for a few weeks, then going back to your old habits isn't addressing it :lol:

Don't get me wrong, there's far worse things people can be doing online, so please cook fam.
 
I say this to myself any time I see the thread on the first page and a few times in that thread.

A bunch of dudes deciding together they won't jerk off for a month or more, discussing their progress of abstaining, and talking about close calls where they almost jerked off is the most gayest non-gay thing I've ever heard of. Imagine that thread if everyone was together in person.

It's kinda proves to me that porn addiction and sex addiction is real and that whole detachment from reality is serious. Threads read like _____ anonymous meetings lite.


Yeah but without the internet or porn those kinds of ppl would still be anti-social and maladjusted leading to them most likely dying alone.

is it bad to do the most gayest non-gay things ???

Yeah the idea of turning this into a support group of sorts is...odd, to say the least.

I just don't get it. Is porn impacting your ability to meet women? Is it impacting your sexual performance (lol how)? What is it about fapping and watching porn that is ruining your life? Is porn distorting your view of sex like you're some kid who is obsessed with violent video games to the point where he can't effectively discern fantasy from reality? What kind of porn are you watching that would cause these types of feelings? I've got a lot of questions.

I'm in a committed relationship, but you're gonna have to pry the porn from my cold, dead hands. There's room for both.

I think of it as a challenge

like you said you're gunna have to pry it from ur hands

its a personal testamment to discipline and i enjoy discussing it with fellow NT'ers

I have watched some this week, but have not busted, im prepping HARD for november
 
is it bad to do the most gayest non-gay things ???
Depends how weird it is to you and how appropriate. Bad is subjective.

I think it's a problem if you think it's normal.

Do you commonly approach your friends on the 1st of the month and suggest y'all not jerk off for 30 days?
 
Do you guys view watching amateur the same way as the professional when it comes to harm it causes?
 
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