I feel like the forced division of gamers is how they mask that video games are really having a bad gen.
I have all three consoles. All three experiences are meh.
I feel like we're suffering from a gaming overload. It's the same with streaming, sports, and entertainment as a whole. So many activities are vying for our focus and attention.
Just on the topic of gaming, I'm in the same boat as you with all 3. I have a regular Switch, which has given me the most fun I've had in gaming over the years, but is severely behind in terms of power right now and it's really showing. Still a great machine for indies and their first party games are second to none.
As for the current gen, I think we're finally in it as of this year. While RE4, SF6, and some others were still on PS4, you'll notice those same games weren't on Xbox One. It's just like when PS1/N64 would get THPS3, MVC1, or CVS
ro. Those games were next gen, but they made them work. As for the rest like Baldur's Gate 3, Starfield, MK1, Spider-Man 2, and the upcoming Tekken 8, Persona 3 Re:Load, etc., we clearly can see we're finally here. The next few years will be the title's that really define this era of gaming.
TLDR: Too many games burning us out and we're finally in the 9th generation.