NT: you a cheater?

what if she told you today.............there was this one time.......

Holla we want prenup! Just in case. I still thinks its foolish to trust anyone that much. Why? Ill be on my George, I'm not even telling a girl other than my mother my pin code, absolutely no reason she needs to know. 'Whats your pin?' 'Run it as credit' -_-

Audi, you got a story chief?
 
Yep. I'm not a cheater. Never have, never will be. I'm a very loyal person. Not just to my girl but to my family, friends, coworkers etc.

Dudes try and act like pulling several girls while in a relationship is "Alpha" when the reality is that if you can't control yourself, then you're simply a "Beta".

In b4 flame wars.

The Truth
 
i cant cheat on my woman

i love her

she loves me

why ruin that?

dudes who cheat on their women shouldnt be in relationships, and are quite frankly losers.

this is coming from a top 5 most handsome NTer too

I myself am also a to 5 most handsome NTer, and I support this statement.

#handsomebros #faithfulgang
 
in DR wit the homies, yup, i cheated. it happens. i hit a few married chic as well, ish happens. i dont look for it tho. i never pursue other woman but when paths cross ish happens. been wit my girl almost 7 years. 
 
in DR wit the homies, yup, i cheated. it happens. i hit a few married chic as well, ish happens. i dont look for it tho. i never pursue other woman but when paths cross ish happens. been wit my girl almost 7 years. 

how many times has she cheated on you that you know of?
 
 
in DR wit the homies, yup, i cheated. it happens. i hit a few married chic as well, ish happens. i dont look for it tho. i never pursue other woman but when paths cross ish happens. been wit my girl almost 7 years. 
how many times has she cheated on you that you know of?
none that i know of. maybe she has, maybe she hasnt. i had a feeling once that maybe she did, but came to the conclusion of no with a little work. i can never trust a woman, no matter what im doing. just me. just how i was raised by my pops. 
 
I'm not a cheater anymore.

But then again I haven't been in a relationship in 3 years :lol

I cheated before and got caught.

One of the worsts feelings :lol :{

She took me back too
 
Yep. I'm not a cheater. Never have, never will be. I'm a very loyal person. Not just to my girl but to my family, friends, coworkers etc.

Dudes try and act like pulling several girls while in a relationship is "Alpha" when the reality is that if you can't control yourself, then you're simply a "Beta".

In b4 flame wars.
 
How you are with females is a reflection of how you were raised, the type of household you grew up in, and how your father treated your mother.

Drops mic
 
I don't think being committed to one person is natural.
 
I don't cheat; I just won't be in a relationship if I wanna get around

Cheaters genuinely need the companion crutch but don't want what comes with the commitment; every cheating dude I've ever know is insecure as all hell
 
It's not a cop out. I honestly don't think genetically men are made to settle. We're made to spread our seed and keep the species alive.

It could be a cop out if you lean on that. We are capable of commiting to one person. Instinctually, I don't think that's how we're built, though.
 
I love how dudes are acting all high and mighty, saying they "haven't and never will", and calling cats who do "boys and losersb...really?! y'all are comedians. Like as if temptation has never and will never have any control over you. You're self-restraint is powerful...

We're all human, we all make mistakes, and for some, cheating is one of them. If you're sociable, consume adult beverages, or engage illegal substances, the temptation is only heightened.

I made out with a girl while dating another one, but nothing miee. Am I proud about it, no. But also, I don't feel like a scumbag either. Things happen in life, which are unplanned, and unintentionally...you live and you learn from it.

All I'm saying is yeah, morally cheating is bad, and probably best to try to avoid doing it. But, ishh may happen in the heat of the moment. And if so, don't think lowly of yourself. Many have done it and many will continue to do it. Just learn from it and do what you think is best going forward.

and all this above, is simply an excuse to condone that type of behavior.

I think it's a well agreed upon fact that cheating on a spouse is wrong. Thus, simply saying "oh im human I make mistakes" is a BS crutch and proves you do not have the control or desire to remain faithful.

It's black and white.
 
Well if you believe that then that's perfectly fine but don't get into a relationship unless it's mutual

I guarantee the dudes who cheat would be the first to flip all hell if the girl did the same
 
im not jus talkin bout just being committed to relationships tho. if we could commit to jus one thing in life in anything, we wouldnt want new things unless we NEEDED them. new houses,  cars, clothes, places to live, jobs etc. humanss get bored with things and we want new things to excite us. same with relationships. most people can go years being happy then it gets boring right?. my parent been married 34 years, but i can see the fire isnt there like it once was. i have seen my pops with other woman, asked him why as a youngin, he said simply for somthing NEW. i coulda blame my moms like why not do somthing different, why not change? but why ask a person to change who they are, you married them right?  dont have to agree with me but its jus my take on it.
 
Well if you believe that then that's perfectly fine but don't get into a relationship unless it's mutual

I guarantee the dudes who cheat would be the first to flip all hell if the girl did the same
I'm not currently in a relationship, and if I were to commit to one tomorrow I wouldn't lean on that belief as a crutch. Once you commit, you commit. Using that as a crutch would be hypocritical.

It's about self control and discipline.
 
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