NT: you a cheater?

[am1x90xnike]

I've never cheated, I've also never really dated. But, when I was younger I'd be like 'I'd never mess with a girl with a bf' but then, I realized bfs don't mean ish. So I stepped it up to never messing with a married girl. But now...I'm like eff it, these broads act like their ring don't mean ish, why should I? Besides, people get married and do terrible things to each other.

Since I've resolved to never cheat; it's a broken promise with consideration (legally) and getting caught cost to much. But, is it bad to be the 'side piece' for lack of a better term? Like would you sleep with a married women? I know a guy who got stabbed over it....and stabby mcstaberson was an attorney, huge settlement. But that doesn't scare me...I'm clever lol. Besides, she promised herself to him, I didn't promise ish to any one.

Would I be morally bankrupt to pursue this married women?

 

[sec champ]

i cant cheat on my woman

i love her

she loves me

why ruin that?

dudes who cheat on their women shouldnt be in relationships, and are quite frankly losers.

this is coming from a top 5 most handsome NTer too

I know a guy who got stabbed over it....and stabby mcstaberson was an attorney, huge settlement. But that doesn't scare me...I'm clever lol.

clever enough to avoid a flailing knife coming at your throat?

what a dumb statement

 

[cashbanks]

I've never cheated, I've also never really dated. But, when I was younger I'd be like 'I'd never mess with a girl with a bf' but then, I realized bfs don't mean ish. So I stepped it up to never messing with a married girl. But now...I'm like eff it, these broads act like their ring don't mean ish, why should I? Besides, people get married and do terrible things to each other.

Since I've resolved to never cheat; it's a broken promise with consideration (legally) and getting caught cost to much. But, is it bad to be the 'side piece' for lack of a better term? Like would you sleep with a married women? I know a guy who got stabbed over it....and stabby mcstaberson was an attorney, huge settlement. But that doesn't scare me...I'm clever lol. Besides, she promised herself to him, I didn't promise ish to any one.

Would I be morally bankrupt to pursue this married women?

all the fish in the sea why?

dirtbags chase after married women IMO

 

[af1 1982]

Yep. I'm not a cheater. Never have, never will be. I'm a very loyal person. Not just to my girl but to my family, friends, coworkers etc.

Dudes try and act like pulling several girls while in a relationship is "Alpha" when the reality is that if you can't control yourself, then you're simply a "Beta".

In b4 flame wars.

 

[airthompson]

Messing with a married women is a bit too much. But I've talked to girls who were in relationships but that's as far as it went.

It was so hard to turn down attractive women, yeah I've cheated before. Hats off to the fellas who haven't. Too bad I'm not ugly like y'all that makes it easier.

not srs

 

[af1 1982]

I just hate it when dudes try to hit on my girl when they know she's in a relationship. That's why I would never do it to someone else.

 

[am1x90xnike]

I'm to clever to get into a situation where I'm getting stabbed by surprise. Public places, never at night, all that jazz. I've known this girl for like a year now, we'd always flirt and say slick ish to each other, but it wasn't until recently that I said 'why not' ( a few weeks ago) but idk, I feel scumbag, but line this girl...I probably won't, Karma and all, but man the idea...o

 

[miniojw]

I don't put myself in complicated situation on purpose. Just save yourself the headache.

 

[Barbados Slim]

You're not cheating if you are single and the girl has a bf or a husband, she is. I don't think there's anything moral wrong with it, but it seem like it would be awkward and a hassle to chase a married women especially if she has kids. Plenty of single women out there, so I personally would move on.

 

[flyny]

Never was a cheater, never will be. I don't see the point in it. Yea it's tempting to dip ya meat into a different warm cup of pudding , but think about it, then rub one out...you'll be iight.

1 extra piece of box isn't worth the **** that's on the line. If you want to smash other females, just be straight up and break up with shorty and do your business. Don't string her along...that's just you being a weak boy..not even a man..a weak BOY.

And when you mess with a girl in a relationship, you also risking your life. You don't know her man from a hole in the wall so trust and believe that son don't got a problem with putting 2 hot ones in your chest, god.

 

[Chopper]

 This won't end well because it's NT, but in the real world, cats stay banging married chicks.

I have three friends that got caught slamming our acquaintance's wives and nothing happened to any of my friends... Two of the couples are still married, one is divorced. I've personally never smashed a married chick though. Not saying I wouldn't given the right circumstances, but I know I'd regret it like hell as soon as I busted, so it wouldn't be worth it.

As far as cheating, I don't do it. If I'm in a committed relationship I don't cheat. I rarely make it "official" with a chick just so I have the flexibility to mess with other chicks if I want to. Kind of an ***-hole thing to do but it keeps me from officially cheating 

 

[af1 1982]

I'm to clever to get into a situation where I'm getting stabbed by surprise. Public places, never at night, all that jazz. I've known this girl for like a year now, we'd always flirt and say slick ish to each other, but it wasn't until recently that I said 'why not' ( a few weeks ago) but idk, I feel scumbag, but line this girl...I probably won't, Karma and all, but man the idea...o

It's not necessarily you wanting the girl. It's the fact that she's deemed unobtainable due to the ring. But you wanna accept that challenge.

But why literally ruin another dudes life. He's got so much invested in that marriage. A house, maybe kids coming, etc. Dont do it man, it's one of the most foul things you can do to another man.

 

[af1 1982]

Never was a cheater, never will be. I don't see the point in it. Yea it's tempting to dip ya meat into a different warm cup of pudding , but think about it, then rub one out...you'll be iight.

1 extra piece of box isn't worth the **** that's on the line. If you want to smash other females, just be straight up and break up with shorty and do your business. Don't string her along...that's just you being a weak boy..not even a man..a weak BOY.

And when you mess with a girl in a relationship, you also risking your life. You don't know her man from a hole in the wall so trust and believe that son don't got a problem with putting 2 hot ones in your chest, god.

This. All of this. Exactly my view points man.

 

[al audi]

i dont wanna talk about this

 

[cashbanks]

Too many women in the world why put yourself in an situation for nothing

and why be apart of potentially ruining someones life? for some sex?

 

[flyny]

I just hate it when dudes try to hit on my girl when they know she's in a relationship. That's why I would never do it to someone else.

My guy, you gotta let them know that that ain't gonna fly. I'm not saying curb stomp the dude, but definitely approach him with some hostility and ask him what's he looking for

 

[sec champ]

I'm to clever to get into a situation where I'm getting stabbed by surprise. Public places, never at night, all that jazz.

 

[airthompson]

^^

 This won't end well because it's NT, but in the real world...

look at the demographic on this site. Half this cats are in the starting lanes, and need to keep on living. But srsly hats off to those who are grown and nvr got caught up.

 

[Animal Thug]

I know someone who gut murked because he was hitting some dude's wife, and the husband is locked up for years. And the wife turned to drugs...and this was in 2006...

So from a uncalculated risk; lead to one being dead, another locked up for 15+ and the wife being a junkie...all from some dude misleading the wife into think he loved the woman more than her husband did..when really, all he wanted was the yambs...scumbag ****.

That was my lesson learned, and thankfully I was on the outside looking in.

I'm happily engaged, and couldn't see myself doing my fiance like that. Our bond is far more worthy than some side yambs with no true value..

 

[treystylezpopz]

Yes. I'm just gonna leave it at that.

But my next relationship whenever I choose to commit to 1 which will be no time soon. I'm gonna make a conscious commitment to myself not to cheat at all and for me that's gonna be something serious. Real Serious.

 

[af1 1982]

My guy, you gotta let them know that that ain't gonna fly. I'm not saying curb stomp the dude, but definitely approach him with some hostility and ask him what's he looking for

I definitely feel you. But my girls a good girl. I got nothing to worry about, I trust her. Showing that type of reaction is a sign of weakness imo.

 

[luigyvintage03]

Women lie all the time bruh and the same goes for men, I've seen the craziest ish go down, and let's not talk about my girl cousins and what they do when they come down from out of state to visit my fam here in Miami and what they do behind their man's back. We live in an era where everyone is exposed at all times and social media has effed all that up. Now a days people find an excuse to cheat, even for liking another girls pic on IG can get your girl to want to back fire and cheat, and like I said it works both ways though.  

 

[Barbados Slim]

 
It's not necessarily you wanting the girl. It's the fact that she's deemed unobtainable due to the ring. But you wanna accept that challenge.

But why literally ruin another dudes life. He's got so much invested in that marriage. A house, maybe kids coming, etc. Dont do it man, it's one of the most foul things you can do to another man.

Probably need more details on their marriage status before we can assume he's going to be ruining the husbands life. What if he's cheating or is a ****** husband, or the wife is unhappy. If the wife is also perusing OP, maybe their marriage is messed up. 

Can't believe no one has asked for pics yet? If this girl  is 

 I bet a lot of these "loyal" dudes would think twice.

 

[al audi]

Yes. I'm just gonna leave it at that.

But my next relationship whenever I choose to commit to 1 which will be no time soon. I'm gonna make a conscious commitment to myself not to cheat at all and for me that's gonna be something serious. Real Serious.

agreed

 

[af1 1982]

 
Probably need more details on their marriage status before we can assume he's going to be ruining the husbands life. What if he's cheating or is a ****** husband, or the wife is unhappy. If the wife is also perusing OP, maybe there marriage is messed up. 

Can't believe now one has asked for pics yet? If this girl  is 

 I bet a lot of these "loyal" dudes would think twice.

I see what you mean. But I was just listing basic details that entails all marriages. I would hope they have a house together and assume they might wanna start a family.

It definitely goes both ways. The cheater and the pursuer are to blame.