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The child is atleast given a chance.Originally Posted by ericberry14
fam i went through this experience with an ex girlfriend of mine & things were never really the same after. She said that she thinks about it alot & part of her regrets it. But she knows that it was the right decision at the time. If you arent fit to raise a child & give it everything that a child needs & deserves, then IMO abortion is the better route to go. People talk about how adoption is always an option when one gets pregnant, but it isnt that simple. There are tons of babies who never get adopted & stay with foster care & all that.Originally Posted by Thousandaire
But she said it wasn't that bad, its just a lil procedure and you should be out of there in an hour. Y'all just can't have sex until the stitches dissolve...
but sidenote sex is the last thing that he & his girlfriend should be thinking about at this time, they probably wont have sex for a while after the stitches dissove anyways
Adoption gives them no option.
And let's not get it twisted, I am very pro-choice. I just feel the OP is using it as a copout.
Best of luck to you and your girl, OP.