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true.Originally Posted by StonedFace
For an ASIAN she had mass, sorry let me correct that.
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true.Originally Posted by StonedFace
For an ASIAN she had mass, sorry let me correct that.
hmm speak more on this..interesting.Originally Posted by GrimlocK
like i said in another thread
experience is the greatest teacher.
But let me ask you this OP, why instead of you feeling like you messed up cuz you showed interest in the girl, should you not feel like "hey, I showed this girl that I was really feeling her and she couldn't handle what I had to give"
If this was a couple years ago alot of people like myself would have said that you didn't play the game right...but now I realize that this *@@% isn't a game at all.
hmm speak more on this..interesting.Originally Posted by GrimlocK
like i said in another thread
experience is the greatest teacher.
But let me ask you this OP, why instead of you feeling like you messed up cuz you showed interest in the girl, should you not feel like "hey, I showed this girl that I was really feeling her and she couldn't handle what I had to give"
If this was a couple years ago alot of people like myself would have said that you didn't play the game right...but now I realize that this *@@% isn't a game at all.
Originally Posted by All Ready
you looked desperate, women like men who have options, men who are desired by other women
you being all clingy and under her all day is looked at as more of a weakness
she wants a man, not a girlfriend, alotta guys default to doing stuff that the 2 chicks would do together
women like leadership, they don't like indecisive, submissive men
if she's calling the shots, you already lost
Originally Posted by All Ready
you looked desperate, women like men who have options, men who are desired by other women
you being all clingy and under her all day is looked at as more of a weakness
she wants a man, not a girlfriend, alotta guys default to doing stuff that the 2 chicks would do together
women like leadership, they don't like indecisive, submissive men
if she's calling the shots, you already lost
Feelings were shown by both parties pretty early in my case, I just took it to whole nother level. Appreciate the input. I feel ya bro. As long as you were yourself, you can't be salty about it. Alotta girls are shady like that, going from dude to dude with no remorse. REAL feelings should not be shown to these type of birds.Originally Posted by Forgot About Jae
Seems like you broke down too easily too soon.
I just went through this, smashed 2 weeks [raw] after our first date. Nothing serious really, I called her maybe 2 times in between the smash date [where she drove 1hr on a empty tank with no AC] and the next time we kicked it. Took her to a concert a few weeks after, told her i loved kissing her and she gave me the "i love kissing you too" and such. We dont really agree on making plans the day after but we end up at the same spot the day after, i see her from afar.
..with another dude.
Yea I seen him on her facebook and they seem like friends from high school with a possible romantic interest involved..so I back off, I did text her if shes there and she was kinda goofing in her texts with too many "lol" and suchTypical ashamed female banter, you know?
But man, I was fuming raging mad that night...felt betrayed and defeated. Yea. that was 2 weeks ago from this week and nothing has really been put out there from me or her, besides some lame tweets about love that I think might be about us, and I shot those down with some philosophical tweets that weren't directed at anybody or subtweet-like, but debunked her silly girly %!$+ she tweeted in a way. It sounds immature but the tweets we both sent weren't aggressive or angry at all..but it feels like we agreed to do it that way
I did everything the "right" way..you know? I kept my cool, I called the shots, dropped mad knowledge, smashed like a champion, kept the mystery-vibe going about me..etc. And was myself the entire time...something greater than me changed it, and I was defeated. L
Im hurt, $*%* it, I wont lie about that. Im hurt. I said it again, but it reminded me of some things we all know about dating and women:
-they have options like us
-they will run away from relationships quicker than most guys
-they will always be right, not in the argumentative sense, but in the way that they can still have some guy out there to hold her down if she destroys what she has going on with you. they "win" per say, they have back up and their sense of accountability isn't like ours.
-there's a million of em out there with bigger breasts and better convo skills, so don't for once think they aren't replaceable.
Nothing about most relationships should be taken personal, and while some girls can be shy/timid when it comes to dating you, alot of girls are just gonna use your opening up with them as a sign of weakness. I don't wanna tell you to crush hearts and make girls turn lez after you're done with them, but 99% of women in your life are TEMPORARY. It's like getting a tattoo about some silly %!$+ you know isn't crucial; don't leave a permanent stain on your self-esteem and manhood. That's it
Feelings were shown by both parties pretty early in my case, I just took it to whole nother level. Appreciate the input. I feel ya bro. As long as you were yourself, you can't be salty about it. Alotta girls are shady like that, going from dude to dude with no remorse. REAL feelings should not be shown to these type of birds.Originally Posted by Forgot About Jae
Seems like you broke down too easily too soon.
I just went through this, smashed 2 weeks [raw] after our first date. Nothing serious really, I called her maybe 2 times in between the smash date [where she drove 1hr on a empty tank with no AC] and the next time we kicked it. Took her to a concert a few weeks after, told her i loved kissing her and she gave me the "i love kissing you too" and such. We dont really agree on making plans the day after but we end up at the same spot the day after, i see her from afar.
..with another dude.
Yea I seen him on her facebook and they seem like friends from high school with a possible romantic interest involved..so I back off, I did text her if shes there and she was kinda goofing in her texts with too many "lol" and suchTypical ashamed female banter, you know?
But man, I was fuming raging mad that night...felt betrayed and defeated. Yea. that was 2 weeks ago from this week and nothing has really been put out there from me or her, besides some lame tweets about love that I think might be about us, and I shot those down with some philosophical tweets that weren't directed at anybody or subtweet-like, but debunked her silly girly %!$+ she tweeted in a way. It sounds immature but the tweets we both sent weren't aggressive or angry at all..but it feels like we agreed to do it that way
I did everything the "right" way..you know? I kept my cool, I called the shots, dropped mad knowledge, smashed like a champion, kept the mystery-vibe going about me..etc. And was myself the entire time...something greater than me changed it, and I was defeated. L
Im hurt, $*%* it, I wont lie about that. Im hurt. I said it again, but it reminded me of some things we all know about dating and women:
-they have options like us
-they will run away from relationships quicker than most guys
-they will always be right, not in the argumentative sense, but in the way that they can still have some guy out there to hold her down if she destroys what she has going on with you. they "win" per say, they have back up and their sense of accountability isn't like ours.
-there's a million of em out there with bigger breasts and better convo skills, so don't for once think they aren't replaceable.
Nothing about most relationships should be taken personal, and while some girls can be shy/timid when it comes to dating you, alot of girls are just gonna use your opening up with them as a sign of weakness. I don't wanna tell you to crush hearts and make girls turn lez after you're done with them, but 99% of women in your life are TEMPORARY. It's like getting a tattoo about some silly %!$+ you know isn't crucial; don't leave a permanent stain on your self-esteem and manhood. That's it
real talk man. I have been with numerous women in my 24 years of living and only one or two haven't showed me a complete different side of them I didn't see initially when we we first started dating. Have fun out here man, these girls are living it up. Trust me, my female friends tell me about how they spit and chew dudes up who they aren't even feeling that much. Its crazy how fast a girl can move on and act like what you had with her was nothing. They got backups after backups of dudes ready to simp and do whatever they want for the temporary time period they are happy with you. With all that being said, do you! They will flock once they see how much you are separated from the other lame dudes out here. They will be attracted to your exclusiveness and your lifestyle. Don't change your life for these girls...they wouldnt do it for you..Originally Posted by Forgot About Jae
-there's a million of em out there with bigger breasts and better convo skills, so don't for once think they aren't replaceable.
but 99% of women in your life are TEMPORARY. That's it
real talk man. I have been with numerous women in my 24 years of living and only one or two haven't showed me a complete different side of them I didn't see initially when we we first started dating. Have fun out here man, these girls are living it up. Trust me, my female friends tell me about how they spit and chew dudes up who they aren't even feeling that much. Its crazy how fast a girl can move on and act like what you had with her was nothing. They got backups after backups of dudes ready to simp and do whatever they want for the temporary time period they are happy with you. With all that being said, do you! They will flock once they see how much you are separated from the other lame dudes out here. They will be attracted to your exclusiveness and your lifestyle. Don't change your life for these girls...they wouldnt do it for you..Originally Posted by Forgot About Jae
-there's a million of em out there with bigger breasts and better convo skills, so don't for once think they aren't replaceable.
but 99% of women in your life are TEMPORARY. That's it