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You're either going on dates with other men, or you're just lying for cool points on a message boardOriginally Posted by ai3mac1
I don't pay for anythin on any date. Yes I'm a cold blooded ruthless beast
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You're either going on dates with other men, or you're just lying for cool points on a message boardOriginally Posted by ai3mac1
I don't pay for anythin on any date. Yes I'm a cold blooded ruthless beast
Yes I was being very very serious when I said that...Originally Posted by J Dilla Himself
You're either going on dates with other men, or you're just lying for cool points on a message boardOriginally Posted by ai3mac1
I don't pay for anythin on any date. Yes I'm a cold blooded ruthless beast
I was going to put this earlier but my Ipod was messing up and wouldn't let me post. I bet dude was feeling real cocky when he posted this too.Originally Posted by PaidNHalf
Originally Posted by McFlyyy
i remember i took a girl to chili's one night and when the tab came, she immediately reached for her purse. before that, i was gonna split 50/50 but once i saw that she was willing to pay for her half, i paid for it all.
U were hustled
Events that aren't, I tell them before we even go out that I don'tbelieve in paying for her since I don't know her. Hasn't hurt me yet.So again, what are you trying to get at?
I do that also and it hasn't hurt me either and if it does so be it. I know everybody isn't going to agree with how I feel and I understand that.
Originally Posted by J Dilla Himself
at 15 bucks being alot for a meal.
how are you going to say not to pay...and you have the art of manliness link in your sig???Originally Posted by DCAllAmerican
Honestly a lot agree with what I say. Of course I might APPEAR to be extreme but many of them agree when I break it down to them verbally.
In terms of the World being conditioned to worship women.
I get called sexist all the time but that doesn't come in the way of anything. Many respect me for having a "different" opinion.
Like I said man, I am not a woman hater. I just want some equality in the dating realm. Men get taken advantage of and are too weak in general for me. I need dudes to stand up for their rights and stop letting these females get over on them.
So all of these dudes that say, "Oh DC ain't popular with the ladies. I can tell you don't have a girl." - Sounds good man. I don't trip off of baseless comments like those. Which is why I ignore 95% of them
this is my mindset.Originally Posted by DanzInRealLife
I don't believe in the whole guy paying for everything mindset.
First date: 50/50
Then if it went well and it looks like we'd go on a few more, I'd take him out and then he take me out for the next. I like to keep it all even.
Great mindset. You both are vying for FUTURE interaction. It isn't the man is HOPING and PRAYING that the woman will give him date #2, so let him do everything in HIS POWER to make that happen.Originally Posted by Ryda421
this is my mindset.Originally Posted by DanzInRealLife
I don't believe in the whole guy paying for everything mindset.
First date: 50/50
Then if it went well and it looks like we'd go on a few more, I'd take him out and then he take me out for the next. I like to keep it all even.
Originally Posted by Homer
Women didn't create these rules on how to be a gentleman.
first date you always pay.
if you go out and act allawkward when the check comes, asking if she wants to split it or " soyours was 14.99 soooo" = ur a scrub
dont be cheap. you asked her out you pay.
i can tell DC aint popular with the ladies
This makes no sense if you do it that way and you look like a lame but who in the hell does it like that? Like DC I tell chicks beforehand how I feel about this and they can choose to go or not go. If they don't want to do it there are alot of cats that are good for what they are looking for and vice versa.
Yeah, that makes sense. Because women made decisions in male dominated early civilization.Originally Posted by DCAllAmerican
Originally Posted by Homer
Women didn't create these rules on how to be a gentleman.
Actually they did. Why would men create them when it doesn't benefit them? It is no doubt in my mind that these "rules" were created by females.
I don't know how we don't see eye to eye on this issue. In the single parent thread you were talking about men raised by single moms not knowing how to be men. Now, when a man is called on to perform his traditional role in paying for the first date, you're trying let the man sit back and take the female role.Originally Posted by DCAllAmerican
Nobody has explained to me WHY men SHOULD pay for the first date.
WHY
WHY
WHY
SHOULD we?
Now, when a man is called on to perform his traditional role in paying for the first date, you're trying let the man sit back and take the female role.
So if this is a man's traditional role, shouldnt the females hes taking out subscribe to their traditional gender role?
Not for nothing, I see DC's logic.
I just had a girl I was kicking it for a while tell me our date at Starbucks wasnt a date. We got some coffee chopped it up and got some pizza afterwards...next date we had Thai...So I'm like "this broad is equating dates to money spent". Damn shame...It appalled me but this is how some females think.
Shoot...aint nothing wrong with taking a girl free places/events for a first date. Least I'll do is buy some grub after.
NO, I said a woman can't teach a boy how to be a man.Originally Posted by SShanique
I don't know how we don't see eye to eye on this issue. In the single parent thread you were talking about men raised by single moms not knowing how to be men. Now, when a man is called on to perform his traditional role in paying for the first date, you're trying let the man sit back and take the female role.Originally Posted by DCAllAmerican
Nobody has explained to me WHY men SHOULD pay for the first date.
WHY
WHY
WHY
SHOULD we?
So if this is a man's traditional role, shouldnt the females hes taking out subscribe to their traditional gender role?Originally Posted by blackmagnus514
Now, when a man is called on to perform his traditional role in paying for the first date, you're trying let the man sit back and take the female role.