my girl is gettin a lil hansy when she toss tempers... need a solutiong to curb it. update post #38

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Originally Posted by ricky409

aight yall... i come home from work and she comes up to me all nice and stuff...

whenever i'm mad, she'll put on my shoes...

normally, that get a smile, but i'm still pissed....

she was all "i'm sorry... i shouldnt have hit you.. i was just frustrated cuz i hate when you dont listen... i'm really sorry" and what not...

then asked me if i was hungry... she know i'm hungry then a $%@$%....

i refused, and she went ahead and starting cooking...

i'm seriously thinkin about not even eatin this food just to prove a point...

passive aggressive anger...

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agghhh.... i'm so used to puttin the smokin hat....

i meant to drop an oh well... smh...

but i just ended up talkin to her.. came correct w/ it...

"you hittin me aint doin nothing but showing how childish you are... just chill w/ the hittin cuz eventually, i'm stop treatin you like my lady and start treatin you like a !%$$$ on the street"...

she was all "
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... okay.... i'm sorry... "

next time, she will get two to the thigh, though....

  
 
Originally Posted by ricky409

aight yall... i come home from work and she comes up to me all nice and stuff...

whenever i'm mad, she'll put on my shoes...

normally, that get a smile, but i'm still pissed....

she was all "i'm sorry... i shouldnt have hit you.. i was just frustrated cuz i hate when you dont listen... i'm really sorry" and what not...

then asked me if i was hungry... she know i'm hungry then a $%@$%....

i refused, and she went ahead and starting cooking...

i'm seriously thinkin about not even eatin this food just to prove a point...

passive aggressive anger...

pimp.gif
pimp.gif
agghhh.... i'm so used to puttin the smokin hat....

i meant to drop an oh well... smh...

but i just ended up talkin to her.. came correct w/ it...

"you hittin me aint doin nothing but showing how childish you are... just chill w/ the hittin cuz eventually, i'm stop treatin you like my lady and start treatin you like a !%$$$ on the street"...

she was all "
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... okay.... i'm sorry... "

next time, she will get two to the thigh, though....

  
 
Originally Posted by ricky409

waddup nt...

lately, my girl been gettin hansy when she cop an attitude or we get in a fight...

i'll hit her with the "girl... i dont know why you yellin cuz i stopped listening 5 min ago"...

she loses it after that...
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that really makes her mad, and she gets to the point when she hits me...

i mean, closed fist punches...

they dont really hurt, but this is starting to become a problem... i'll turn to raise my hand to deliver a back hand w/ the power of 1,000 suns...

 and she'll duck down all scared and stuff and start crying...

but i never hit her... cuz i'd really... REALLY mess her up if i wanted to...


how do i go about toning this down...

we been together for awhile, so i'm not leaving... i've considered hitting her back one good time to calm all this down... but i wanna hit her w/ some intellectual jabs, ya know?

no pics, but here are some chickies from the Black Woman Appreciation Thread tha i liked...
well there goes your answer right there.
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Originally Posted by ricky409

waddup nt...

lately, my girl been gettin hansy when she cop an attitude or we get in a fight...

i'll hit her with the "girl... i dont know why you yellin cuz i stopped listening 5 min ago"...

she loses it after that...
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that really makes her mad, and she gets to the point when she hits me...

i mean, closed fist punches...

they dont really hurt, but this is starting to become a problem... i'll turn to raise my hand to deliver a back hand w/ the power of 1,000 suns...

 and she'll duck down all scared and stuff and start crying...

but i never hit her... cuz i'd really... REALLY mess her up if i wanted to...


how do i go about toning this down...

we been together for awhile, so i'm not leaving... i've considered hitting her back one good time to calm all this down... but i wanna hit her w/ some intellectual jabs, ya know?

no pics, but here are some chickies from the Black Woman Appreciation Thread tha i liked...
well there goes your answer right there.
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Originally Posted by ricky409


i'll hit her with the "girl... i dont know why you yellin cuz i stopped listening 5 min ago"...

she loses it after that...
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Ima Try This On My Girl An See How She Reacts...
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Originally Posted by ricky409


i'll hit her with the "girl... i dont know why you yellin cuz i stopped listening 5 min ago"...

she loses it after that...
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Ima Try This On My Girl An See How She Reacts...
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Originally Posted by CrunchyBlack9

Thump her on the nose!


  
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that would def. have her like $%+...

she'll be in such shock she wouldn't know what to do...she wouldn't hit you anymore tho...

tellin her girls 'i went to swing on him and this #$@!# put his %@!*+% thumb in my nose'
 
Originally Posted by CrunchyBlack9

Thump her on the nose!


  
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that would def. have her like $%+...

she'll be in such shock she wouldn't know what to do...she wouldn't hit you anymore tho...

tellin her girls 'i went to swing on him and this #$@!# put his %@!*+% thumb in my nose'
 
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