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My dude went o.d. descriptive with the story, but definitely get him to be social, buns will follow suit.
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Originally Posted by Adrian1221
damn this took me backOriginally Posted by Gmbybryant
Originally Posted by superflyinchopstickninja
Just take him out and start up small talk with some females. Show him it's not a tough thing to do. The first step he needs to do is just talk to them. After that progress will just come on its own.
Yeah, the kid is tripping. There are fat slobs who have it WAY worse than this dude in the looks department. He really does have confidence issues... but if he's been stuck inside as much as you said, his mind could already be a little lopsided. You may need to go the professional route (psychologist) in order to really help him in the long run, along with taking him out and introducing him to people like Pharaoh suggested. I mean... you get sad when you're lonely, but you don't usually want to kill yourself. He may not be strong enough to fully bring himself out of that kind of mental incapacity without some serious help.Originally Posted by BasedOMG
Originally Posted by K Town Trash
or try putting him to work out. get him a membership to local gyms so he can feel better about himself. self confidence is the key to women. get him to run/lift weights or even sports. girls love guys with glasses. if you pull it off right, that nerdy/trendy look can give you ({}). post pics of him (pause) so we as in NT can help this guy turn his life around. guide him what to wear, what to work on and so on.Originally Posted by BasedOMG
That's the thing , he never had much friends in high school .
He only hung out with the chess clubs that goes traveling around the boroughs to different schools so that they could compete .
Not the type of guys i would hit up if i wanted to go looking for the yambs .
He wears glasses and in my opinion i think he could pull off the Pharrell nerd look , I'll try to get him on one of these forums since he loves the internet.i mean how hard can it be?
He has some Asian in him because of his grandmother from his Mom's side .
Dude's not bad looking at all , he just needs to gain some weight .
Originally Posted by BasedOMG
Originally Posted by K Town Trash
tell him to hit up his friends from HS. he def needs to step outside more. remind him being caged in his man cave will not get him any yambs. try putting him on some foambs, snapbacks, tattoos, and a twitter account because thats an automatic yambs.
That's the thing , he never had much friends in high school .
He only hung out with the chess clubs that goes traveling around the boroughs to different schools so that they could compete .
Not the type of guys i would hit up if i wanted to go looking for the yambs .
He wears glasses and in my opinion i think he could pull off the Pharrell nerd look , I'll try to get him on one of these forums since he loves the internet.
Originally Posted by mytmouse76
did you and your cousin really sit and discuss penis size?
Originally Posted by 703 Hwy
You might want to determine his sexuality first, this could quickly fix everything
Originally Posted by 214
Originally Posted by mytmouse76
did you and your cousin really sit and discuss penis size?
Im sayin.....
I would've put that convo to a halt as soon as he said penis.
ALL OF THIS.Originally Posted by WISEPHAROAH
O.P. after reading your post I still can't exactly placed where he actually considered killing himself over the lack of a sexual life. I think his issue is not feeling that he fits into society and he doesn't have the proper social skills to really function. The good news is he is only 17 and its summer. The bad news is that you are going to have to spend it helping this guy step outside if his shell. Here's what you do. Start having very small gatherings of him yourself and maybe 1 or 2 of your friends initially. Let him get comfortable with them and allow him to see that he isn't as foreign as he thinks. Once a form of trust has been made start going out with that small group while doing little things like going to mall,movies,beach, etc. Start out breaking down his social barriers slowly but surely. Just buying him a %!@$%! and calling it a day isn't going to do anything for him in the long run and actually living a life knowing that you lost your virginity to a %!@$%! isn't going to help him feel good about himself as he gets older. His issue isn't sex, its not being confident. He also isn't in a healthy mental state because locking yourself in a room all day watching people bukkake each other isn't exactly healthy. Being fat and wearing glasses isn't an excuse because I see dimes with fat guys wearing glasses all the time. Anyway let's hope that deep down inside this kid is really just a reclusive genius because you could have a potential rapist/serial killer brewing over there and he might take your butt or life first.......... no pressure.
Originally Posted by whyhellothere
Originally Posted by CaptainKicks
Tell him that there are tons of people who have it worse
qft.
dude looks like
& has 6-7" & wants to end his life
this man knows nothing about that real struggle!
dudes a lil bit too comfortable with each otherOriginally Posted by 214
Originally Posted by mytmouse76
did you and your cousin really sit and discuss penis size?
Im sayin.....
I would've put that convo to a halt as soon as he said penis.