lock this up

[jking0821]

OP just jokingly bring up the "sibling zone" thing. See if she back tracks some how. I am sure she said it because no one is going to be like "i am feeling you, but not you" out in public in front of people you know. Just socially awkward. It doesn't seem like this is going to turn into a relationship but the constant interaction says you can prob hit if you play your cards right.

 

[Barbados Slim]

You asked her out for coffee when you're free and she said thanks which clearly is a response the "congrats". She didn't even address the shot bro. You missed, but it's all good. On to the next one.
Scoop up a 10 and bring her to church on Sunday.

 

[cedric ceballos]

She needs to see you and the other dude as Eskimo brothers when it’s all done.

 

[Top Boy]

@llerraj and Comparison Ford y'all know damn well the mods are going to snipe both your post and give you a warning

 

[mastamind033]

You should’ve asked her out in person face to face instead of DMs, especially since you guys been going to the same church for 8 years and been talking for at least 2 months.

 

[youngbillrussel]

Say some slick perverted comment next time she DM you. Either you'll get what you want or she'll start leaving you alone lol. The last thing you want is to be her social media gal pal.

 

[Top Boy]

on topic, I wouldn't even bother especially if you plan to keep up your Sunday routine at this church.

"Don't **** where you sleep" applies to more than work. Too many women with what you're looking for between the legs to mess your routine up on something as base as that

You don't need to smash every chick you find attractive, you especially don't need to smash any chick you find attractive that is entrenched in your routine. Inevitably asking to make your life more difficult for no real reason at all

 

[alchemist iq]

Say some slick perverted comment next time she DM you. Either you'll get what you want or she'll start leaving you alone lol. The last thing you want is to be her social media gal pal.

He should block her on ig and see her reaction when he sse her in person.

That would really get her tweakin.

 

[max powers]

on topic, I wouldn't even bother especially if you plan to keep up your Sunday routine at this church.

"Don't **** where you sleep" applies to more than work. Too many women with what you're looking for between the legs to mess your routine up on something as base as that

You don't need to smash every chick you find attractive, you especially don't need to smash any chick you find attractive that is entrenched in your routine. Inevitably asking to make your life more difficult for no real reason at all

Unless you're looking to start something serious with her. ^What he said.

 

[diego]

OP - Have you gotten solid advice yet?

Also...
Pics?

 

[tr1ll]

Ol girl could be posting in here telling him exactly what to do, he won't do it...

 

[Barbados Slim]

Oops already posted

 

[Comparison Ford]

on topic, I wouldn't even bother especially if you plan to keep up your Sunday routine at this church.

"Don't **** where you sleep" applies to more than work. Too many women with what you're looking for between the legs to mess your routine up on something as base as that

You don't need to smash every chick you find attractive, you especially don't need to smash any chick you find attractive that is entrenched in your routine. Inevitably asking to make your life more difficult for no real reason at all

On the flipside of this, don't let work/church/whatever get in the way of pursuing a girl you're really feeling. I only apply the "don't **** where you eat" rule to a girl I only view as a smash. If you see potential for something meaningful, just go for it.

I know I clowned on you earlier, but if you want my honest advice I honestly don't think she's feeling you like that. If a girl is feeling you and someone asks, they'll usually go quiet and act bashful rather than give a direct answer, and if they gave that "little brother" response they'd make up for it later by making their real thoughts more apparent in private conversations. If I was in your shoes I would take her response as the kiss of death and move on.

I could be wrong, but if you're still going for it and/or want some advice for the future: you need to be more assertive and less available. You can't be there swapping life stories and tales of yesteryear for weeks and weeks before even meeting up face to face. You're turning yourself into a penpal instead of a romantic partner. Keep the chit-chat to a minimum and just ask her out directly.

 

[tr1ll]

I’m surprised how much of NT has a fear of rejection. Dudes acting like he has to Chang churches if she declines. Even if you are in the friend zone, do you want to be there? If not, shot your shot. An ill advised shot will get you out of there quick. At the point, the worst thing that could possibly happen is that she says yes. Lol

 

[Beruseruku Desu]

On the flipside of this, don't let work/church/whatever get in the way of pursuing a girl you're really feeling. I only apply the "don't **** where you eat" rule to a girl I only view as a smash. If you see potential for something meaningful, just go for it.

I know I clowned on you earlier, but if you want my honest advice I honestly don't think she's feeling you like that. If a girl is feeling you and someone asks, they'll usually go quiet and act bashful rather than give a direct answer, and if they gave that "little brother" response they'd make up for it later by making their real thoughts more apparent in private conversations. If I was in your shoes I would take her response as the kiss of death and move on.

I could be wrong, but if you're still going for it and/or want some advice for the future: you need to be more assertive and less available. You can't be there swapping life stories and tales of yesteryear for weeks and weeks before even meeting up face to face. You're turning yourself into a penpal instead of a romantic partner. Keep the chit-chat to a minimum and just ask her out directly.

 

[Chiron]

on topic, I wouldn't even bother especially if you plan to keep up your Sunday routine at this church.

"Don't **** where you sleep" applies to more than work. Too many women with what you're looking for between the legs to mess your routine up on something as base as that

You don't need to smash every chick you find attractive, you especially don't need to smash any chick you find attractive that is entrenched in your routine. Inevitably asking to make your life more difficult for no real reason at all

That's nonsense.
this chick is acting fake innocent like some prom pics
only thing routine for her is sliding in dms looking for bomb d***
Bump that do that ****
Back row of the pew that ****
otherwise keep playing sibling and acting coy
like Mr Top Boy! Mr. fetish cop toys. Mr. getting wop from a slow shorty by saying its an almond joy.

 

[Bosa]

Still no pics..


How old are ya?

 

[Comparison Ford]

@llerraj and Comparison Ford y'all know damn well the mods are going to snipe both your post and give you a warning

both?

 

[Top Boy]

That's nonsense.
this chick is acting fake innocent like some prom pics
only thing routine for her is sliding in dms looking for bomb d***
Bump that do that ****
Back row of the pew that ****
otherwise keep playing sibling and acting coy
like Mr Top Boy! Mr. fetish cop toys. Mr. getting wop from a slow shorty by saying its an almond joy.

I dont think i've ever seen someone on NT try so hard in all my time on this forum

You get an E for effort I guess

 

[W)taps]

On the flipside of this, don't let work/church/whatever get in the way of pursuing a girl you're really feeling. I only apply the "don't **** where you eat" rule to a girl I only view as a smash. If you see potential for something meaningful, just go for it.

I know I clowned on you earlier, but if you want my honest advice I honestly don't think she's feeling you like that. If a girl is feeling you and someone asks, they'll usually go quiet and act bashful rather than give a direct answer, and if they gave that "little brother" response they'd make up for it later by making their real thoughts more apparent in private conversations. If I was in your shoes I would take her response as the kiss of death and move on.

I could be wrong, but if you're still going for it and/or want some advice for the future: you need to be more assertive and less available. You can't be there swapping life stories and tales of yesteryear for weeks and weeks before even meeting up face to face. You're turning yourself into a penpal instead of a romantic partner. Keep the chit-chat to a minimum and just ask her out directly.

Thanks for the input. When he swapped life stories and **** it was in-person. It was after that she started DMing me. Either way I’ll shoots my shot being more assertive one last time. If I miss on well. Got nothing to lose lol

 

[willypete]

Thanks for the input. When he swapped life stories and **** it was in-person. It was after that she started DMing me. Either way I’ll shoots my shot being more assertive one last time. If I miss on well. Got nothing to lose lol

Send her the pipe print and she’ll know what time it is

 

[アミーゴ]

YNS

 

[brendasdeadbaby]

Op just invite her over the house to watch a movie b

 

[wayniac211]

We need pics

Pics?

 

[ASE]

I forgot to mention, she once asked me if im seeing anybody. I said im not and she responded by saying "me either" with a smile. not sure if that means anything lol