Living with your girl?

[k town trash]

I'm about to be 18 soon and I might be heading off to bay area to go to either San Francisco State, San Jose State or Cal State Eastbay. I was wondering ifit is a good idea to live with your girl at age of 18. We both are gonna work AND get support from our parents.. atleast for a few months settling in. I'vebeen to bay just couple of times and it looks

to live up there. She might go to either Mills College, USF or those schoolsthat are stated above depends on the acceptance. How is it like living with your girl and is it worth living together?
BTW we both are living in LA

 

[mangudai954]

So let me get this straight..you aren't even 18 and want to move in with your girl while you're going to college? That is a disaster waiting to happendont do it.

 

[brokeballah]

This will only work out if your girl LOVES and adores you.

 

[j23s]

I'm 23 doing it now and I feel like I'm on lock down. Not a good move OP

 

[dashoekid21]

arent you aware what you just said????...

your going to a university and you wanna live with your girl???..slap your self

 

[DCAllAfrican]

Don't do it.

1. You are WAY too young and you might break up and you might not want to be around eachother anymore.
2. You are going to be in college. Don't think you REALLY want to live with your woman.

 

[divinetecknique]

This will NOT work. It might play off easy for awhile, but in the end, it will not work at all. Especially since you're not even 18 yet and you will begoing to college away from where you live, especially the bay area.

Yeah, don't do it

 

[yungmatt]

Palm your face...

 

[stonedface]

It might not necissarily be a disaster... but most likely the odds are gonna be against you.....

 

[mangudai954]

Originally Posted by StonedFace

It might not necissarily be a disaster...but most likely the odds are gonna be against you.....

x2

 

[Fong$tarr]

Financially it makes sense to support each other but I feel that will be the downfall as well. Since you are young, I would say no cause if the relationshipfails, you guys are in a bad position to move forward.

And I am just speaking on stats. From my experience from my own relationship and friends with relationships that started in high school, they usually start tocrumble in college. Your mind starts to change during that time and what you want in a relationship changes as well. I would say no...but that is me.

 

[octobersfinest]

Cue the "this will not end well" and "R.I.P"s immediately.

 

[trelvis tha thrilla]

Originally Posted by Mangudai954

So let me get this straight..you aren't even 18 and want to move in with your girl while you're going to college? That is a disaster waiting to happen dont do it.

Co-sign.

 

[kim1]

18? While In College?

Just say goodbye to your relationship from now

 

[Thats My Word]

Damn, is there no hope for young love?

 

[DCAllAfrican]

Originally Posted by OctobersFinest

Cue the "this will not end well" and "R.I.P"s immediately.

Because that is what Mr. Probability is telling us. Those phrases SHOULD be used in an instance like this.

 

[ill w1lliam]

Originally Posted by BrokeBallah

This will only work out if your girl LOVES and *TRUST* you.

fixed*

 

[saymoregotsole]

Don't do it.. just live your life.. enjoy bachelor livin while you can!

 

[dunks87]

NO.

 

[ricekrispies420]

Even If you both feel ready, don't. Still too young IMO.

 

[dirtyxcanto]

NO

 

[Sam Darnold Heisman #8]

Originally Posted by BrokeBallah

This will not end well only work out if your girl LOVES and adores you.

 

[mytmouse76]

Has bad written all over it. Way to young and to much to experience your first year to be nagging each other about dumb @+#% that will come up. Your parentssupport this idea?

 

[eight2one]

Originally Posted by Mangudai954

So let me get this straight..you aren't even 18 and want to move in with your girl while you're going to college? That is a disaster waiting to happen dont do it.

pretty much....people change a lot when they hit college.

 

[ldj]

Why younger ppl in a rush to be all grown. Wanna have families/kids at 14/15. Be in serious committed relationships at 16/17 or so. Your a young man you ainteven old enough to buy liqour, yet wanna make a finnacial obligation like living together. You just now starting to come into your own. You gonna be at collegein la, man there is tons tons of hot chicks. Its like a buffet, and you aint even tried checked out what is all on the spread, and go get the first food youuse to and accustom to. I n all honesty i would just cut ties, and love live life. If you 2 are meant to be it will happen. Focus on you and school and justliving life and having a good time. College is your most carefree yrs, Dont ruin it like this.