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Yeah I mean, I can't stand when chicks will give out a number, and then never pick up. Just be real and say no thanks. It's weak on their end.
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Originally Posted by keithsweatsjordans
I'm actually interested in this. I'm a pretty shy/reserved type of dude, so I usually only approach girls if I can tell the attraction is mutual. I see dudes just walk up behind chicks at a bar and go to work, I just couldn't do it myself.
Originally Posted by seventh letter
I look at it this way
Ugly girls (5<) probably get approached not too often, but enough to keep a roster of dudes
Mediocre girls (6-7.5) Probably get approached the most, because they are semi-attractive, but not too intimidating... or more approachable
Solid 8's - Dimes, probably get approached less than mediocre girls, because a lot of dudes are scared. That's why you always see sexy girls with real confident dudes aka douches
That's just my theory from observation.
cosign. i mean i have no problem approaching womens, unless i know the attraction is mutual. or if we start chopping it up and we flirting back inforth then ill go in for the number and what not. ive been approached by females trying to get my number at work/public places. had a pregnant chick try to getmy number at my old jobOriginally Posted by keithsweatsjordans
I'm actually interested in this. I'm a pretty shy/reserved type of dude, so I usually only approach girls if I can tell the attraction is mutual. I see dudes just walk up behind chicks at a bar and go to work, I just couldn't do it myself.
gucci mane said it best. honestly though, i agree with MF doomer or whatever. you really do not have to approach chicks. it seems easier tojust let them come to you. if you take the chill approach and let them come your way you'll be surprised at how many chicks will approach you in somefashion. obviously most of em not bout to HOLLA at you, but they got they lil ways of getting your attention. HATE watchin %%!$ getting gassed. dime,superstar, whatever.Originally Posted by MaddenFan04
How else you gonna meet women, like they just walk up to you?Originally Posted by MF Doomer
Approaching is a waste of time because it reinforces the girl to know that your thirsty.
Very rarely does that happen
Same concept goes with meeting people, MOST people aren't going to just talk to you for no reason
Unless your a freshman in college trying to make friends, your not just gonna pick up friends out of thin air
Ha, barely! When it comes to the opposite sex, I am still opening up when it comes to interacting with men when it comes to flirting. I think itis because I was in a relationship for a long $%% time,and it was such a bad breakup.So, all that has formed many insecurities for me. Also, I am just stillused to being in a long term relationship and being with that one person. So, I have to break out of that shell and I am less shy than before.Originally Posted by Master Zik
Related question how many of yall NT females have the confidence to approach a guy you like or find attractive?
Originally Posted by eight2one
Originally Posted by keithsweatsjordans
I'm actually interested in this. I'm a pretty shy/reserved type of dude, so I usually only approach girls if I can tell the attraction is mutual. I see dudes just walk up behind chicks at a bar and go to work, I just couldn't do it myself.
same here....unless im drunk
Originally Posted by seventh letter
I look at it this way
Ugly girls (5<) probably get approached not too often, but enough to keep a roster of dudes
Mediocre girls (6-7.5) Probably get approached the most, because they are semi-attractive, but not too intimidating... or more approachable
Solid 8's - Dimes, probably get approached less than mediocre girls, because a lot of dudes are scared. That's why you always see sexy girls with real confident dudes aka douches
That's just my theory from observation.
interesting theory there calicam Aubrey "Drake" Graham.....makes sense to me
Hardly everOriginally Posted by Master Zik
Related question how many of yall NT females have the confidence to approach a guy you like or find attractive?
I did not say that. It just depends on how they do it. You really think a girl will answer a man if he is shouting obscenities to her ortelling her to go over to him, yelling across the street about how juicy her thighs/booty are or how he wants to suck on her nipples? Why not just approach herin a decent manner and introduce yourself all the while giving her a nice compliment?Originally Posted by Mangudai954
So you don't view someone "hitting" on you as mature and respectful?
I was not even talking about that. I mean mixed signals BEFORE you approach. Things like body language, eye contact, smiling, etc.Originally Posted by I Drink Your Milkshake
guy: ok, so why don't you let me get your number?Originally Posted by knightngale
If would be easier if the girl actually approached the guy first though cause sometimes you can get mixed signalsOriginally Posted by I Drink Your Milkshake
Originally Posted by knightngale
co signOriginally Posted by keithsweatsjordans
I'm actually interested in this. I'm a pretty shy/reserved type of dude, so I usually only approach girls if I can tell the attraction is mutual. I see dudes just walk up behind chicks at a bar and go to work, I just couldn't do it myself.
it is not a good look if you approach a girl that is not feeling you at all
I wish more guys would just get this--don't guilt me into taking your number when it's CLEAR that I don't want it (cuz if I did I would've gave you mine when you asked )
anyways, I don't get asked out alot alot.....but I get approached. My issue is getting approached by people who I actually want to approach me. When I go out I get hit on more (obviously cuz of how I'm dressed) and I am NEVER dressing even remotely decent when I go to Walmart anymoreThe whole "damsel in the distress" thing is funny tho cuz when my keys got locked in my car and when I ran out of gas I walked away with numbers ( not quality numbers btw)
girl: (laughs akwardly) nah, I'm cool. Thank you though.
guy: aww c'mon, why not? are you seeing somebody?
girl: well, I am dating someone...but it's not in a relationship
guy: well I mean,we can be friends....I can be there if that don't work out.
girl: (laughs akwards again) c'mon...I just said I don't want to do that.
guy: well, will you take mine?
girl: (reluctantly smile) *pauses* *takes out phone* ok, what is it? *puts it in, does not text or call immediately*
guy: ok, talk to you later
girl: ok.
how in the HELL is that a mixed single??? Please, tell me...
Once in a blue moon I'll approach a guyOriginally Posted by Master Zik
Related question how many of yall NT females have the confidence to approach a guy you like or find attractive?
that isn't really a clear signal tho unless it's real long eye contact.Originally Posted by Kim1
Once in a blue moon I'll approach a guyOriginally Posted by Master Zik
Related question how many of yall NT females have the confidence to approach a guy you like or find attractive?
I usually make eye contact and smile and then he will approach me
Originally Posted by Kim1
MaddenFan04 wrote:
population 2.4 million
my city, 300k
damnnnnnnnnnnnnnn
Originally Posted by EdWord
Originally Posted by Kim1
MaddenFan04 wrote:
population 2.4 million
my city, 300k
damnnnnnnnnnnnnnnI'm attracted to black guys and all the black guys in Toronto (21+) you know some way somehow
Just how it is in the city
Originally Posted by finnns2003
Yeah I mean, I can't stand when chicks will give out a number, and then never pick up. Just be real and say no thanks. It's weak on their end.