5'9" with shoes on.
In the words of roosh, if you feel like it takes a certain aesthetic to get women and you lack that aesthetic, then you've already lost.
I consider myself quite attractive, well spoken, clean cut, hit the gym, surprisingly deep voice, nice teeth, beard and funny/conversational. As far as material factors, i make OK money, got a nice lil apartment and drive a stylish (not luxury) car. Overall I would say that I'm quite confident, but I definitely want that Supreme confidence (without being drunk).
I don't handle rejection well.
You really have to focus on your strengths and use that to excel. Adam Vinateri (sp?) could either sulk b/c he sucks at qb or thrive b/c he's a badass kicker. I'm sure he's content with the latter.
Roosh also made another great point. Men that lack certain aesthetics have to work harder throughout life to pull women, thus leaving them with a sharper, stronger more refined game. Bang is a great read btw.