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Originally Posted by retr0sxual
I can't stand being told that I'm quiet. Am I supposed to entertain you, #%$*+?
Can't stand when girls tell me this.
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Originally Posted by retr0sxual
I can't stand being told that I'm quiet. Am I supposed to entertain you, #%$*+?
don't you know that being able to interact with others is an important life skill? you will open so many doors for yourself if you can learn to navigate your way around social situations.
Originally Posted by Dirtylicious
the greater issue though is this:
don't you know that being able to interact with others is an important life skill? you will open so many doors for yourself if you can learn to navigate your way around social situations.
Originally Posted by SiMPLYDiMPLY
no but sometimes people hit me up on say a friday night asking me to go out and i decline because i'd rather read and relax or just stay home. and they can't grasp the concepti don't care what day it is, i do what i want when i want.
Some's me up and its with everyone unless I'm trying to get some. I don't wanna have stupid conves with peopleOriginally Posted by 03silverbullet
I just choose not to carry on unnecessary conversations with random people over trivial stuff.
Originally Posted by B Smooth 202
I think people mistake my reserved nature for being a snob.
oh well.
Originally Posted by Alan Garner
Originally Posted by B Smooth 202
I think people mistake my reserved nature for being a snob.
oh well.
This. I swear people think I'm arrogant/conceded/rude when I'm actually just very shy and they just take it the wrong way.
Originally Posted by Uptown Roamer
If I don't know you, or don't want to know you, that's how I'm gonna be.
Originally Posted by SiMPLYDiMPLY
no but sometimes people hit me up on say a friday night asking me to go out and i decline because i'd rather read and relax or just stay home. and they can't grasp the concepti don't care what day it is, i do what i want when i want.
Originally Posted by shaqtus92
My family thinks I'm anti-social or something. But the truth is when they're not around, I'm one of the most social people you'll probably meet.
like you might be cool not talking but you probably making other people feel awkward in a situation like that...
i never though about it like that
OP - I think the issue is that while you're being polite, you're not putting forth the extra effort to her FAMILY and FRIENDS.. these are people important in HER life. Just being polite is treating them like strangers.
It's not enough to be polite.
that makes sense but at the same time if the roles were reversed i wouldnt care