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If you raised someone else's child for three plus years....I am talking lived together, potty training, taught him how to play basketball, how to read, everything under the sun from the time he was 15 months old. And you separate from the mother, what is the typical manner of handling birthdays/christmas for the little one. She is been trying to contact me here and there, and I have just ignored her attempts. I know she is expecting me to do something for her son, and as much as I would love to and want to...I know any effort I make to do so, will be misconstrued as attempting to head back to that lifestyle and situation.
I have a new job, new lady with no baggage, and I don't want to block future blessings by entertaining the past, but at the same time....I still view that little one as my own son essentially. He is like a little version of me.
I was thinking just sending stuff anonymously?
Pictures for the illiterate ones... not posting pictures of the new female at this time.
I have a new job, new lady with no baggage, and I don't want to block future blessings by entertaining the past, but at the same time....I still view that little one as my own son essentially. He is like a little version of me.
I was thinking just sending stuff anonymously?
Pictures for the illiterate ones... not posting pictures of the new female at this time.