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Not really sure how to feel about it...
We live 2500 miles away from each other and i was 15 the last time i spoke to him, some emails have been sent during that time too but I let him know thatemails dont cut it.
It was also around that time that I found out why my mom split from him, as he cheated on her and was caught when i was only like 2 years old...
So I was eating my thanksgiving dinner and I hear the phone ring and see his name come up on the TV... Immediately lost my appitite and my mom picked up thephone, talked to him for a few and then handed the phone to me... I let him start talking and didnt really say much but he kept asking me different questionsabout what im doing now so it turned into a 1.5 hour convo...
He says he is going to email and call often but I dont even know if i want him to. I just have this feeling of wanting to prove to him that I didnt need himand that ive made it on my own. I taught myself how to shoot a basketball and throw a football without him and Ive got a great girlfriend that Ive been withfor almost 5 years and put myself through school and got jobs and opportunities without him.
The only thing I can really say I learned from him is how NOT to be a father. I suppose I can thank him for that
I figure theres people on here that have been in similar situations so I decided to share and hear what yall have done/felt ...
We live 2500 miles away from each other and i was 15 the last time i spoke to him, some emails have been sent during that time too but I let him know thatemails dont cut it.
It was also around that time that I found out why my mom split from him, as he cheated on her and was caught when i was only like 2 years old...
So I was eating my thanksgiving dinner and I hear the phone ring and see his name come up on the TV... Immediately lost my appitite and my mom picked up thephone, talked to him for a few and then handed the phone to me... I let him start talking and didnt really say much but he kept asking me different questionsabout what im doing now so it turned into a 1.5 hour convo...
He says he is going to email and call often but I dont even know if i want him to. I just have this feeling of wanting to prove to him that I didnt need himand that ive made it on my own. I taught myself how to shoot a basketball and throw a football without him and Ive got a great girlfriend that Ive been withfor almost 5 years and put myself through school and got jobs and opportunities without him.
The only thing I can really say I learned from him is how NOT to be a father. I suppose I can thank him for that
I figure theres people on here that have been in similar situations so I decided to share and hear what yall have done/felt ...