HOW DO PLAYERS/CHEATERS DO IT NOW?!?!?!?!?

[offset pow clow]

Exactly just cut her off, you cant tell a grown woman what to do with her box

I never understood why dudes fight over females

 

[Gill Baka Esq. LLC.]

Spinoff question, how many of y'all actually give y'all chick your pass code?

Sucka stuff. But of course you will have dudes that use the "I don't have anything to hide" card.

I don't see any reason why people need to touch each other's phones man.

People have insecurity issues man. I'm one of them.

I remember back in the day my phone had died and my ex from back then was with me and we were eating something on campus. Since my phone died I just grabbed hers to make the call and she got super defensive. Red flag, I know. I asked her what's the deal and that I need to make a phone call. She said she has some texts from her sister that are private...could have been...could have been not.

Fast forward to now. I haven't really spoken to her in 4 years. She has always been texting me to meetup and go get some drinks. My sis told me that she realized she had a good guy in me now and wants something to pop off. Felt bad for her too. Mom got ovarian cancer, and her dad died 2 weeks ago in Florida. I'm not heartless. I lent my support. Not so secretly I wanna hit it again but I know the headache involved with that and I always remember the phone situation. At the end of the day you can never put yourself in the position of a "Plan B" for girls. You either Plan A or your outta there. ***** can't like me just for my laurels *****.

Back to the point, I'm one of those dudes "who has nothing to hide" but I agree with you if your saying that people going through other peoples phones just to snoop and stems from trust issues is overboard.

 

[RIP sleazyy]

Exactly just cut her off, you cant tell a grown woman what to do with her box

I never understood why dudes fight over females

They wanna fight dudes cuz they feel disrespected.

Which is flaw in itself cuz your girl taking eggplant to the throat means she don't respect you anyway.

 

[703 hwy]

Hate the double standard but that's just me like dude said above lol. I've cheated in the past and been taken back but let her cheat and I'm chucking the deuces lol. And if you've ever been in love you'll understand why dudes fight, especially if the dude is right in front of you. But if you go tracking the dude down than that's extra.

 

[HEATHEN]

I'm not married and I don't care what she do. If she cheats then ima dump her   ........I don't care how contradicting I sound because I personally feel like women can't cheat w/o some feelings being attached.

I know there's a few that can but the majority can't  

so if you're married then you'll be loyal?

or nah?

 

[Brownstone]

I think I found the one ya'll. She not my girl but she caught me slippin 3 times already, at my apartment looking for **** other females left behind. Came out the shower last night to find her on some

I need that though, can't be with a girl I can run game on for the rest of my life.

 

[toast1985]

This is literally the thread about cheating, lol.

This is what we've come to in 2015? I don't claim to be a saint, but it's always been a simple formula for me, if you have ambitions to cheat, don't get in a relationship. It is as simple as that. Plus, you can get all of the benefits of a relationship without the title in 2015. From multiple women.

 

[xbiker47]

Wish they all thought like that

 

[ksteezy]

Turn off your relationship?

 

[mr marcus]

y

 

I'm not married and I don't care what she do. If she cheats then ima dump her 

 ........I don't care how contradicting I sound because I personally feel like women can't cheat w/o some feelings being attached.

I know there's a few that can but the majority can't  

so if you're married then you'll be loyal?

or nah?

been with my lady for 7 years and she hasn't said it but I know if we don't at least get engaged this year she'll entertain the idea of leaving me 

personally I don't blame her but the whole marriage thing scares the hell outta me. I don't know if it's because of her or if I'm genuinely not into that whole thing  

but to answer your question I do believe in complete loyalty when you are married. I also believe marriages last decades cause the man was probably hitting something on the side lol 

 

[HEATHEN]

This is literally the thread about cheating, lol.

This is what we've come to in 2015? I don't claim to be a saint, but it's always been a simple formula for me, if you have ambitions to cheat, don't get in a relationship. It is as simple as that. Plus, you can get all of the benefits of a relationship without the title in 2015. From multiple women.

THIS.



Cheating is a hallmark of insecurity in oneself.


You want the safety and security of a relationship and a monogamous partner FOR YOU, but you yourself won't reciprocate that. Yet you still feel the need for being in a relationship.


Same dudes all on NT talmbout being lonely and feelsbatman but when they finally get a good thing going they take it for granted.

 

[HEATHEN]

y
been with my lady for 7 years and she hasn't said it but I know if we don't at least get engaged this year she'll entertain the idea of leaving me 

personally I don't blame her but the whole marriage thing scares the hell outta me. I don't know if it's because of her or if I'm genuinely not into that whole thing  

but to answer your question I do believe in complete loyalty when you are married. I also believe marriages last decades cause the man was probably hitting something on the side lol 

so you won't be loyal to her unless you're married, but you expect loyalty once you enter the covenant of marriage?


makes MAD sense b.

 

[mr marcus]

 

y
been with my lady for 7 years and she hasn't said it but I know if we don't at least get engaged this year she'll entertain the idea of leaving me 

personally I don't blame her but the whole marriage thing scares the hell outta me. I don't know if it's because of her or if I'm genuinely not into that whole thing  

but to answer your question I do believe in complete loyalty when you are married. I also believe marriages last decades cause the man was probably hitting something on the side lol 

so you won't be loyal to her unless you're married, but you expect loyalty once you enter the covenant of marriage?


makes MAD sense b.

look I don't care what she chooses to do......if she wants to cheat then cool....I'll just end the relationship and carry on with my life

Already stated I haven't cheated in 4 years 

 ......I just don't see nothing wrong with hitting something on the side if you ain't letting it **** up your relationship

married men are the reason escort services thrive the way they do. It aint single men funneling them all that cash

 

[yungchamp]

Ambitions to cheat? Nah
Sometimes **** happens breh.
Theres so many factors in a relationship.
Sometimes ppl know its over, but they'll
stick around because thats all they know...
cutting that cord is a motha!

 

[mrrolex]

Change yo SN to lil boy Marcus

 

[mr marcus]

Change yo SN to lil boy Marcus

 good one 

 

[harlemtothebronx]

This is literally the thread about cheating, lol.

This is what we've come to in 2015? I don't claim to be a saint, but it's always been a simple formula for me, if you have ambitions to cheat, don't get in a relationship. It is as simple as that. Plus, you can get all of the benefits of a relationship without the title in 2015. From multiple women.

All of this. Figure out what you want and go get it. There's women out there for every purpose. No need to lie to any of them.

Everyone's different, though. I just don't have the energy or patience to try to balance a double life. I know dudes that have been pulling it off for years. I guess I just like my **** in order. All that side piece/bat phone/hidden compartment in the whip **** ain't for me. Be honest from the jump. The ones who are with it will.be with it, the others won't. Why waste your time with all the trickery?

Ambitions to cheat? Nah
Sometimes **** happens breh.
Theres so many factors in a relationship.
Sometimes ppl know its over, but they'll
stick around because thats all they know...
cutting that cord is a motha!

This is true too, though. Relationships are tough, but at this point in my life I don't have it in me to risk what could be my family on some fleeting pleasure.

 

[treystylezpopz]

I wish I had the interest in kicking game to you feelaz but I don't eem feel like it.


If your stiil worried about your woman figuring out your cheating, you should be trying to figure out why she doesn't allow it. When you figure that out you won't have to be worried about her finding out.

 

[DCAllAfrican]

Turn off your relationship?

Relationships should have seasons man. Time away needs to be set into the schedule automatically

 

[victor page]

If you live with a girl...i wouldn't even do it.

 

[RIP sleazyy]

Turn off your relationship?

did you mean put it in standby mode?

 

[mister friendly]

I can't think of a good reason

 

[heliumclinton]

I don't have a passcode, all it takes is her picking up your phone a few times to pass it to you and you not freaking out .. she won't be curious anymore

Men and women have to come to terms that love and sex can be separated.

 

[mr marcus]

I don't have a passcode, all it takes is her picking up your phone a few times to pass it to you and you not freaking out .. she won't be curious anymore

Men and women have to come to terms that love and sex can be separated.

 

[a blinkin]

With all the promiscuous women out there that are perfectly fine with "just sex", I genuinely don't see the need for cheating. If you want to be free to sleep around, why shackle yourself to the constraints of a relationship?

I wish I could've told my younger self this.