How do I approach older women?

[supreme math]

iBlink wrote:

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How'd you bag?

Females are Females...attraction is powerful if you don't force it, DON'T LOOK FOR LET IT FIND YOU.
Women are very emotionally intelligent and detail oriented so never try to "BS" them. Just look your best everyday and live life one day at a time.When you try, you fail and settle for less...NEVER LOOK OR TRY trust me...women wake up
and go to sleep horny just like us and they "prowl" as well so if you let them come to you YOU HAVE THE UPPER HAND
ALWAYS..TRUST ME...the most powerful aphrodisiac on this Earth is being well dressed and RESERVED around a SEXY FEMALE.

 

[alchemiss]

Seriously, just be yourself! You seem like a cool dude that older women would date. Just be upfront, no bs. Just because a woman is older than you doesn'tnecessarily mean she's into more "boring" things. Honestly, talking to older women is just like talking to women your own age except its easierand they are more interesting (most of the time)

 

[iblink]

Originally Posted by supreme math

iBlink wrote:

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How'd you bag?

Females are Females...attraction is powerful if you don't force it, DON'T LOOK FOR LET IT FIND YOU.
Women are very emotionally intelligent and detail oriented so never try to "BS" them. Just look your best everyday and live life one day at a time. When you try, you fail and settle for less...NEVER LOOK OR TRY trust me...women wake up
and go to sleep horny just like us and they "prowl" as well so if you let them come to you YOU HAVE THE UPPER HAND
ALWAYS..TRUST ME...the most powerful aphrodisiac on this Earth is being well dressed and RESERVED around a SEXY FEMALE.


Good stuff. I appreciate it.

 

[mf doomer]

Just have some pose,style,intellect etc.. cake.

 

[soltheman]

Originally Posted by wj4

Originally Posted by supreme math

By no means am I post this to be an bad #!$...
but here mines, 14 years my senior. She was just
as %*#$%% up as someone my age...she's in good
shape for 37...I have other pics that show her body
but they are NSFW

PM them pix, son. You met her at a book store or grocery store or something? Can't imagine running into her at a club, lol.

realtalk, anything goes in the inbox.

send them pics, whoodey.

 

[damnneardeadstock]

i'm glad you made this thread. i'm in the same predicament exactly. i flirt with older women (25-35) all the time, but i think it would make them feelakward if i asked for their number. these 18-20 year old broads just ain't cuttin it

 

[cucumbercool]

on a sidenote, how old is too old? One of my coworkers is id say around 35 the least id think, maybe around early 40s. Im 20..ill take advice along with blink

 

[j d0t c0medy]

Originally Posted by CWrite78

Originally Posted by gumbottombandit

are you ready to perhaps settle down? if not, don't waist hers or your time. you will find that they want what a lot of young guys are not ready to give them. i know.

how exactly does one waist time?

I caught that too.

Anyways.

I'm seeing a woman 9 years older than me. I think it's all about the chemistry not the age. The reason I'm into her is she's self aware,extremely wise, & she knows what she wants. My approach was exactly the same as it would have been for a girl who's my age (22) the only difference isthe older chick has heard it all before you just have to keep it real. Older women also sense B.S. so be careful I've seen young dudes fail and get theirfeelings hurt trying to talk to an older woman. Heed my words and good luck.

 

[krazy]

Don't put $$%*$ on the pedestal. But do your thing man. I'm still too young to try something with even 2 years my senior, so you good.

 

[kix4kix]

Originally Posted by Mr Anleu

Originally Posted by kix4kix

DONT DO IT...THERE ARE REASONS WHY MEN ARE SUPPOSED TO BE WITH YOUNGER WOMEN

naw i hear intimacy wise older women and younger men are actually perfect for each other. men tend to be in their sexual peak in their youth while women tend to be in their sexual peak around the late 30s. that sounds like a good reason for younger men and older women to be together to me.

anyway i think you just got to be mature and show them that even though you are young that you have alot of things going for you. of course this helps if you have a job, place of your own, and a car. also give them what they are looking for which in most cases is to feel young again. im not talking romance but adventure.

If all you want is sex, than I stand corrected..go ahead by all means....There is a reason men are able to reproduce till death, and women are not.

I assumed more of yall

 

[veryanalytical85]

Add to the PM list thanks

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But in all seriousness, be yourself. Definitely have more going for you than just shoes and surfing on NT (if that's all you got, pick up some newhobbies)?
Just chill, and get to know them a day at a time. Depending on her mindset, either she's looking to settle or looking to "settle"...for the rightprice that is. Good luck.

 

[premeone]

PM?

 

[dakingii]

hmmm... this reminds me of the thread i made a couple of months ago,

well since that time i learned alot. I would just say be yourself and have them chose you, rather than you tryin to get them. Dont try to talk to a chick whohas never looked in your direction or saw any interest in you, you are just setting yourself up for the L. Only talk to the chicks who you have seen aroundthat show interest in you (glanceing in your direction alot, etc., im sure you know the signs). You have nothing to lose if they already like you.

 

[purehoopa1]

They will approach you

 

[dagreatj]

I go to lounges/bars where older women parlay... I they just come up to me and spark a convo....

 

[lazy b]

You don't approach older women, they approach you. They already know the game and what you are looking for.