How do I approach older women?

[iblink]

Serious question. The ladies in my age bracket aren't cutting it like they used to. I had a fling with a 23 year older when I was 18 (she was a managerat my old job) and those were some of the best times of my life. So now I'm 20 and I want to up the ante of the women I get involved with I guess. Thereare a few older chicks at my school and I was thinking about taking a night class next semester to get at one of them.

Suggestions?

 

[gumbottombandit]

are you ready to perhaps settle down? if not, don't waist hers or your time. you will find that they want what a lot of young guys are not ready to givethem. i know.

 

[HEATHEN]

By walking up to them...

 

[SplinterMatic319]

taking a night class just so you can hit up some chicks, my dude thats like paying to meet chicks

 

[johnnyredstorm]

Get a job as a pool boy.

 

[wj4]

Originally Posted by gumbottombandit

are you ready to perhaps settle down? if not, don't waist hers or your time. you will find that they want what a lot of young guys are not ready to give them. i know.

+1. I'm not sure how old you wanna aim at, but I've hung out with my homie and some of his female friends...around 25-27 and the singlechicks are looking for a hubby..not some HS boyfriend thing.

 

[cwrite78]

Originally Posted by gumbottombandit

are you ready to perhaps settle down? if not, don't waist hers or your time. you will find that they want what a lot of young guys are not ready to give them. i know.

how exactly does one waist time?

 

[supreme math]

 

[kix4kix]

DONT DO IT...THERE ARE REASONS WHY MEN ARE SUPPOSED TO BE WITH YOUNGER WOMEN

 

[iblink]

Originally Posted by gumbottombandit

are you ready to perhaps settle down? if not, don't waist hers or your time. you will find that they want what a lot of young guys are not ready to give them. i know.

Yes. Now what?

a night class just so you can hit up some chicks, my dude thats like paying to meet chicks
Not really. It's not as though I wouldn't be taking the classes anyway. It's just pushing back the timing to coincide with that of theolder broads.

 

[iblink]

I'm thinking 25-30ish.

 

[jumpkid023]

^^ lol $46? The new 17 Dollars?

 

[DeadsetAce]

Originally Posted by iBlink

Originally Posted by gumbottombandit

are you ready to perhaps settle down? if not, don't waist hers or your time. you will find that they want what a lot of young guys are not ready to give them. i know.

Yes. Now what?

not always true. some of them are looking to just hook up with younger dudes too. i'd say cougars...but the age group you're talking about(25-30), id call them "cubs"

 

[dirtylicious]

guess she wasn't the one, huh? http://niketalk.com/topic/124354

 

[pushak513]

cougars are awesome

go for it man

 

[gumbottombandit]

Originally Posted by CWrite78

Originally Posted by gumbottombandit

are you ready to perhaps settle down? if not, don't waist hers or your time. you will find that they want what a lot of young guys are not ready to give them. i know.

how exactly does one waist time?

i meant waste. could you go back and see if i punctuated correctly while you are at it.

 

[iblink]

Come one now, l wouldn't turn down a 35 year old ex wife

 

[supreme math]

older women are boring..tried it twice..after a couple dates and spills, they manifested into exactly that OLDER WOMEN
they are just as flawed as young women..if not worse, the fact that they're smoking hot and mature but they're single or divored
should've set off emotional red lights.

 

[iblink]

Originally Posted by Dirtylicious

guess she wasn't the one, huh? http://niketalk.com/topic/124354http://niketalk.com/topic/124354

Apparently not. Long distance relationships for the loss.

 

[soltheman]

If a mature woman is interested in kicking it with a younger dude, you won't have to approach them. They'll approach you more times than not.

But, the same way you approach any other woman. Maybe cut down on the lines and give a little bit more substance about yourself.

Not personally my style, but eh.

 

[supreme math]

By no means am I post this to be an bad #!$...
but here mines, 14 years my senior. She was just
as %*#$%% up as someone my age...she's in good
shape for 37...I have other pics that show her body
but they are NSFW

 

[iblink]

How'd you bag?

 

[BANLEU]

Originally Posted by kix4kix

DONT DO IT...THERE ARE REASONS WHY MEN ARE SUPPOSED TO BE WITH YOUNGER WOMEN

naw i hear intimacy wise older women and younger men are actually perfect for each other. men tend to be in their sexual peak in their youth whilewomen tend to be in their sexual peak around the late 30s. that sounds like a good reason for younger men and older women to be together to me.

anyway i think you just got to be mature and show them that even though you are young that you have alot of things going for you. of course this helps if youhave a job, place of your own, and a car. also give them what they are looking for which in most cases is to feel young again. im not talking romance butadventure.

 

[wj4]

Originally Posted by supreme math

By no means am I post this to be an bad #!$...
but here mines, 14 years my senior. She was just
as %*#$%% up as someone my age...she's in good
shape for 37...I have other pics that show her body
but they are NSFW

PM them pix, son. You met her at a book store or grocery store or something? Can't imagine running into her at a club, lol.

 

[iblink]

Finally, some actual advice.