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[Beruseruku Desu]

Chat is this a trap?

 

[willypete]

 

[tay1]

How quick ya'll go on a trip with a chick?

Couple years ago, I met this joint at work in late October. By mid November, we were in Vegas on my birthday

 

[willypete]

My only real match off bumble had me going on a trip with her about 1.5 month of dating. We went to Myrtle Beach and drove which was something.

If there’s some connection and chemistry between y’all, don’t think it’ll matter how quick you take a trip.

I think some people in here were doing trips same month or a couple days after of the first link.

 

[dropten]

How quick ya'll go on a trip with a chick?

Couple years ago, I met this joint at work in late October. By mid November, we were in Vegas on my birthday

Nothing wrong with that. Some just connect faster sooner. But the faster things come the faster they go. How long did yall last?

 

[tay1]

Nothing wrong with that. Some just connect faster sooner. But the faster things come the faster they go. How long did yall last?

**** was done by like February

Almost caused a scene at work too.

 

[fluid hips]

Yea I don't believe in moving fast or moving slow. If there is a connection and the vibe is there, F it. Tomorrow is not promised

 

[Beruseruku Desu]

Got a date with a wasian girl this sat

Spoiler

 

[Jumanji]

Never been cut off like this in my life and it’s been hard to function this whole week cause it’s all I can think about. Just frustrated and anxious over the whole thing.

Been arguing over the past few months over little things, all mostly involving around the same communication issues. She jumps to the wildest conclusions and I often leave things unclear allowing that.

Last week I went solo to Costa Rica, which she was mad cause I didn’t invite her. Last night I’m there she video called me and I didn’t pick up cause I was out with no WiFi. Last convo and we haven’t spoken since, despite me calling and texting her

 

[dropten]

Never been cut off like this in my life and it’s been hard to function this whole week cause it’s all I can think about. Just frustrated and anxious over the whole thing.

Been arguing over the past few months over little things, all mostly involving around the same communication issues. She jumps to the wildest conclusions and I often leave things unclear allowing that.

Last week I went solo to Costa Rica, which she was mad cause I didn’t invite her. Last night I’m there she video called me and I didn’t pick up cause I was out with no WiFi. Last convo and we haven’t spoken since, despite me calling and texting her

She's the one gaslighting bro. Doesn't mean she's a narcissist though. Some people resort to gaslighting behavior cause they don't know how to communicate their own feelings properly.

Regardless, you shouldn't have to put up with stonewalling. Sounds like something she does when she's upset?

Keep ya head up bro. Get to the gym and let off some rage

 

[dropten]

So update on my sub/pet I was dealing with. I scared her off and she ran for the hills . I won't go into detail, but I sent her something and she got scared and responded with "I don't think we should see each other anymore. Good luck on feeld"

Not gonna lie, the 1st week I definitely missed her presence and I thoroughly enjoyed our dynamic. I don't think I could ever settle for a vanilla relationship anymore. I'd have to incorporate some type of kink and D/s dynamic.

I'm talking to someone currently, real pretty, admirable glutes, chill personality but shy and not that experienced. I already mentioned D/s dynamic which she had no clue what it was but she said it sounds fun.

 

[Jumanji]

She's the one gaslighting bro. Doesn't mean she's a narcissist though. Some people resort to gaslighting behavior cause they don't know how to communicate their own feelings properly.

Regardless, you shouldn't have to put up with stonewalling. Sounds like something she does when she's upset?

Keep ya head up bro. Get to the gym and let off some rage

Yes and no. She has shut down when I "walked out of an argument." I didnt realize we were in one cause I was already leaving her place and she tried to start a fight about it . She has mentioned all her past relationships end pretty bad. Now I see she's the reason why.

Already in the gym lol, motivation has been down though. I know the relationship is over and more mad about being stonewalled like this. A lot of fights were because she was doing a lot of assuming for the worst.

 

[tokes99]

Been arguing over the past few months over little things, all mostly involving around the same communication issues. She jumps to the wildest conclusions and I often leave things unclear allowing that.

if you’re often leaving space for opaqueness/vagueness KNOWING your ol’ lady is the jump to ‘the wildest conclusions’ type you had to know this was inevitable

 

[WarriorInTheGarden]

How quick ya'll go on a trip with a chick?

Couple years ago, I met this joint at work in late October. By mid November, we were in Vegas on my birthday

Assuming we smashed and she got bread, as quick as we feel like.

 

[mrtarheel]

Never been cut off like this in my life and it’s been hard to function this whole week cause it’s all I can think about. Just frustrated and anxious over the whole thing.

Been arguing over the past few months over little things, all mostly involving around the same communication issues. She jumps to the wildest conclusions and I often leave things unclear allowing that.

Last week I went solo to Costa Rica, which she was mad cause I didn’t invite her. Last night I’m there she video called me and I didn’t pick up cause I was out with no WiFi. Last convo and we haven’t spoken since, despite me calling and texting her

Summa almost here playa... You gonna run in to something way better

 

[tay1]

Never been cut off like this in my life and it’s been hard to function this whole week cause it’s all I can think about. Just frustrated and anxious over the whole thing.

Been arguing over the past few months over little things, all mostly involving around the same communication issues. She jumps to the wildest conclusions and I often leave things unclear allowing that.

Last week I went solo to Costa Rica, which she was mad cause I didn’t invite her. Last night I’m there she video called me and I didn’t pick up cause I was out with no WiFi. Last convo and we haven’t spoken since, despite me calling and texting her

How long ya'll been talking/dating?

 

[Jumanji]

if you’re often leaving space for opaqueness/vagueness KNOWING your ol’ lady is the jump to ‘the wildest conclusions’ type you had to know this was inevitable

Its realization from all the reflecting I’ve been doing recently lol. Guess a lesson I’ll have to take to the next one.

Summa almost here playa... You gonna run in to something way better

That’s true. There were things about I was hoping was different anyway.

How long ya'll been talking/dating?

Since August. Basically was together at least 5 days a week since we met

 

[tay1]

Its realization is from all the reflecting I’ve been doing recently lol. Guess a lesson I’ll have to take to the next one.

That’s true. There were things about I was hoping was different anyway.

Since August. Basically was together at least 5 days a week since we met

While it doesn't excuse any behavior, she's probably tight ya'll been together for a while and you going on a solo trip.

I think it's worth a conversation tbh. It'll probably blow over.

 

[tokes99]

Its realization from all the reflecting I’ve been doing recently lol. Guess a lesson I’ll have to take to the next one.

makes sense, you live & you learn…having came up in the time before pervasive & ubiquitous cellphone/smart phone usage, i really think they way technology has made (over) communicating constantly the new normal is quite suffocating, as such i’ve been in similar scenarios & i ain’t changing but i understand the womenfolk today are always going to have some amount of consternation about moving in this manner…

 

[frshstunna]

Jumanji shorty was gonna be a long term headache, enjoy some stress free living for a while and just find another joint that you can communicate with better and have less fights with

Some chicks luv to argue a lot about everything thinking dudes just gotta put up with it, but it’s plenty of them that don’t act like that out here who are more level headed and reasonable

 

[DripNick]

I sent her something and she got scared and responded with "I don't think we should see each other anymore. Good luck on feeld"

 

[tay1]

Her calling bruh kiddo is wild tho

 

[DripNick]

Her calling bruh kiddo is wild tho

I couldn't reply to these back to backs texts, that's just me though

 

[tokes99]

Jumanji shorty was gonna be a long term headache, enjoy some stress free living for a while and just find another joint that you can communicate with better and have less fights with

Some chicks luv to argue a lot about everything thinking dudes just gotta put up with it, but it’s plenty of them that don’t act like that out here who are more level headed and reasonable

definitely could be that this woman was just on that type time but if man is frequently enough moving in a way that leaves space for interpretation on the part of the woman, no matter the woman it’s going to eventually go bad; especially if when dealing with essentially strangers & not someone who is familiar

 

[Jumanji]

Yea. I’d say generally speaking though I was pretty clear and consistent. She just required a little more for us to not have as many issues. Still though, she needed work on her end as well.