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[dakingii]

From what you just said it sounds like you are still operating off issues that happened with your ex. That shxt will kill your relationship man. Your girl probably already feel like you moving funny now. Just share your location.

 

[dontsteponmyshoes]

A woman being that insecure would make my penis soft. Good luck bruh.

 

[WASHED KING]

2 phones, same apple ID.

Switch locations. Easy. Y'all making it more difficult than it gotta be. OR just say no.

 

[tokes99]

My girl wants us to share each others location. When we first got together she called me and elected to share hers to me , i never brought it up.

Come to yesterday she asks if we could have each others and i said no. My reason? im 30 , i done been through the idiotic arguments over location before and i dont want to go down that path again . Either you trust me or you dont and if you want to know where i am? Ask. I dont want to feel like im under surveillance in a relationship again.

Am i talkin crazy?

nah, it’s not crazy but y’all should have the conversation…why does she want this information? is the only reason you don’t want to give up the info is in relation to past circumstance(s)?? would sharing (or not) change what y’all got going really?

 

[andretti]

From what you just said it sounds like you are still operating off issues that happened with your ex. That shxt will kill your relationship man. Your girl probably already feel like you moving funny now. Just share your location.

Fair point.

nah, it’s not crazy but y’all should have the conversation…why does she want this information? is the only reason you don’t want to give up the info is in relation to past circumstance(s)?? would sharing (or not) change what y’all got going really?

Good question i didnt ask her that


The second question, yeah basically. Im not scumbaggin it up out here but i dont even wana risk going through all the bs again.

Finally nah it wouldnt change it i dont think.

 

[tokes99]

Fair point.

Good question i didnt ask her that


The second question, yeah basically. Im not scumbaggin it up out here but i dont even wana risk going through all the bs again.

Finally nah it wouldnt change it i dont think.

i’ve learned this is just like a ‘default setting’ some younger women (i’m almost mid 40s) come w/now, just have this expectation for the people in their lives (family, friends, signifiant others) so it’s just ‘weird’ for them when you’re not on that…

i wouldn’t necessarily initiate the conversation, but if it comes up again asking why it matters to her & what if anything it changes for her (would it make her feel more secure? why?), then you can decide if there really is an underlying issue and how you want to proceed with that knowledge

 

[sho3tym]

I never look at the location of others, I was hesitant at first but I ended up sharing. Hasn't caused any issues for us...

 

[willypete]

I used to share with some women but have had questions before about my location “why you at xyz? Who house you at?”

Had questions from some of my boys when they had my location as well.

Do I care? Not at all. I don’t question no one on there location and don’t ask to share either. If it happens it happens.

 

[paulwest1985]

My girl wants us to share each others location. When we first got together she called me and elected to share hers to me , i never brought it up.

Come to yesterday she asks if we could have each others and i said no. My reason? im 30 , i done been through the idiotic arguments over location before and i dont want to go down that path again . Either you trust me or you dont and if you want to know where i am? Ask. I dont want to feel like im under surveillance in a relationship again.

Am i talkin crazy?

I don't think you're being unreasonable at all. If anyone in a relationship feels the need to put that much emphasis on sharing locations, that screams insecurity. Espicially, if you've never given her a reason to suspect that you're out here doing anything foul. But I do think this particular issue does bear some discussion between you both.

 

[ballinsam23]

Photoshop a pic of yourself holding this book.

Unlimited matches.

 

[fluid hips]

Photoshop a pic of yourself holding this book.

Unlimited matches.

 

[Mark Antony]

I don't think the sharing location is a big deal if it comes from a genuine, caring place, but i already think people are too connected. I also remember a dude having to share location because she thought he was cheating. He was and still did btw.

 

[dontsteponmyshoes]

The way my personality set up, you let me know you don't trust me...I'll go ahead and give you those reasons. That's why I'm single tho. Don't take my advice.

 

[willypete]

Just want to say “you not playin fair” still been money

 

[andretti]

Appreciate all the advice fellas , i didnt step to her about it yet im still gathering my thoughts on it overall but thank yall for the input.

 

[willypete]

Whoever it was that said once you off a chick you used to mess with heavy and then she comes back around wanting you more than before was absolutely correct. Ex from the three way been back on my line and was actually disappointed I wasn’t pressed for her no more, even said she been feeling me even more. Another ex hit me with the same thing 3 years ago after we smashed twice that year after not seeing each other for about 4 years.

Might be the sex or that I have my own ish (women in the dmv still mess with hella bums so not too surprised). Hell even my bbw ting been talking crazy after we smashed recently about doing couple stuff, talking on the phone more, etc. I’m not trying to wife any of them up, just still having a good time. As far as the main from the beginning of the week, she be on games but she been assisting me while I was recovering from surgery and stuff so well where we end up by the end of the year.

Gonna get the three way poppin again so might have another story for y’all. Stay tuned and happy Friday.

 

[fluid hips]

BBW wants to upgrade from sneaking over under the cover of darkness to being out in broad daylight on main street holding hands

 

[ogbobbyjohnson773]

BBW wants to upgrade from sneaking over under the cover of darkness to being out in broad daylight on main street holding hands

 

[checks mcgee]

My girl wants us to share each others location. When we first got together she called me and elected to share hers to me , i never brought it up.

BBW wants to upgrade from sneaking over under the cover of darkness to being out in broad daylight on main street holding hands

andretti you not obligated to do none of that and if she doesn’t trust you without your location then she might not be secure enough for a relationship

fluid hips most power forwards / centers get like this eventually, especially if you’re having game 6 performances

might be time to snip her before her feelings develop into something even more because it will only get messy

 

[fluid hips]

Is it just me or can y'all also tell right away if a girl had her dad in her life or not?

 

[smedroc]

Is it just me or can y'all also tell right away if a girl had her dad in her life or not?

I thought i could until recently.

Girl i met didn't have her dad around from early. But her mom was a business woman. Strong personality. And she kept her daughter under her wing, made sure she focused on education etc.

She's a little bit naive to the world but it's been a long time since i've met someone who was that emotionally stable and strong in their values.

 

[smedroc]

 

[fluid hips]

Why do people keep putting her on platforms? She needs to go away

 

[fluid hips]

 

[Brownstone]

Why do people keep putting her on platforms? She needs to go away

It def worked, I can see her pivot to christian influencer in her near future