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Dating a woman with kids that aren’t yours you are basically accepting all the responsibilities of being their father without none of the benefits.

No legal rights, not biologically yours. If I’m going to invest into a child emotionally, financially and have them in my life it has to be my blood.
 
U making it seem like there ain’t no REAL single women out there without kids. Single mothers are just as capable of cheating and bleeding a man’s wallet dry.

The negatives outweighs the pros to dating a single mother…the kid not accepting u and God forbid dealing with the baby daddy.

Unnecessary stress
 
It's the principle bro. Tired of woman bashing. A lot of em good peeps. They don't need your money or nuffin for that matter. But ppl be on some other type stuff. It's the MAIN ones who 30 + over STILL SINGLE. Talking bout it's my pref. Well obviously you can't find a single chick without kids if ya ain't found her by now. MESSAGE! So keep lookin and good luck broskies. Meanwhile a lot of the single no kids females be cheating on you, spend ya money., want this and that. And all ya coins. But a REAL ONE who got kids ya'll pass up when she could be ya soulmate. Moral of story, be wit someone who treat you right. Not because of some lame standard. Again, if ya ain't found her by now and you 30 + prolly never gon find her so expand your outlook and either date differently or stop bashing what u don't know.
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I agree. Also here to advocate for single mothers because a lot of men who past judgement don't have a pot to piss in. Some single mothers are single by choice. Often times it just doesn't work out with the father and they go separate ways. They are just as successful as any of woman just with a kid. Half of ya'll me included would sleep with a single mother but won't date her or wife her. If she was a celebrity would it be different? Example: Diddy net worth is about 7.4 mil and he's dating a single mother. Multiple single mothers. He also has daughters of his own. As long as she's getting an education and has a job and taking care of her kids it's nothing wrong with dating her. Yambs betta than half the single ones who like to play around nowadays anyway. I feel like if you're single and want to find something else single...cool but quit bashing single mothers. A lot of them have good things going and it ruin when ya'll dudes on here bash them. Half the dudes on here most likely grew up in single parent households that's why they like to bash.
Your heart is in the right place but you can put your cape away.

Plenty of single women out here without kids. Can't let these single mothers guilt trip dudes for not wanting to deal with the baggage.
 
So.. quick story time!

Met white dress at a weddding on my bday of 2021 in New Orleans.. coincidentally she lived in dc too.. got back to dc and we went out but come to find out she not giving up the yams.. so I fell back.. saw her and text her occasionally up until 4th if July this year..

Linked up.. vibe was cool.. she ended up inviting me over a couple days later and we been goin ever since!

def worth the wait fr
 
Another wild one!

She a few years old than me.. like 3-4.. when I was a freshman she was a senior

Me and her lil brother was real tight so she looked at me like a lil N.. but that was then

Saw her at an event and she hit me in the Instagram DM.. like “I think I saw you at this event.. u done grew up”

Took her to a casual lunch spot a few weeks later

Then linked wit her a couple weeks after that and started hitting it..

It’s more to the story but I know y’all ain’t tryna hear all that.. basically she “love” me and don’t know why we can’t be more… shawty got too much drama and got 2 kids.. enuff said
 
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Another wild one!

She a few years old than me.. like 3-4.. when I was a freshman she was a senior

Me and her lil brother was real tight so she looked at me like a lil N.. but that was then

Saw her at an event and she hit me in the Instagram DM.. like “I think I saw you at this event.. u done grew up”

Took her to a casual lunch spot a few weeks later

Then linked wit her a couple weeks after that and started hitting it..

It’s more to the story but I know y’all ain’t tryna hear all that.. basically she “love” me and don’t know why we can’t be more… shawty got too much drama and got 2 kids.. enuff said
Where’s my man caping for single mothers at?

U gonna defend this? He’s blocking his blessings?
 
So.. quick story time!

Met white dress at a weddding on my bday of 2021 in New Orleans.. coincidentally she lived in dc too.. got back to dc and we went out but come to find out she not giving up the yams.. so I fell back.. saw her and text her occasionally up until 4th if July this year..

Linked up.. vibe was cool.. she ended up inviting me over a couple days later and we been goin ever since!

def worth the wait fr
Sometimes it is well worth it to keep ‘em in the tuck, build the roster and make a move when you can. I’m king of being patient.

That’s a nice roster. I’m working on number two right now.
 
Where’s my man caping for single mothers at?

U gonna defend this? He’s blocking his blessings?


I guess you ignored the part where the real issues were her wanting more and being full of drama....he was fine with the kids without the other stuff. :lol:


Most people in here don't seem to be looking for a relationship so the whole not dating single moms topic is pointless if you're just looking to smash. No one is gonna pass on a chick with no kids for one with kids. Knock down both.

21 or 36, Kids or No kids, lawyer/doctor or working retail....most people aren't to be taken seriously dating wise. Collect your Pokémon and keep it moving


Sounds like my man @dhart48 in a good spot though. This guy passing up layups at work and opting for the path of most resistance :lol:

In my experience dating apps are the path of least resistance (If you can't get matches then that's a location or looks/profile issue not the app). You can meet women from all backgrounds, spend a minimal amount of time, spend no money and hangout/smash.

if you can get women or talk to women offline it doesn't make sense for it not to translate online.




 
So.. quick story time!

Met white dress at a weddding on my bday of 2021 in New Orleans.. coincidentally she lived in dc too.. got back to dc and we went out but come to find out she not giving up the yams.. so I fell back.. saw her and text her occasionally up until 4th if July this year..

Linked up.. vibe was cool.. she ended up inviting me over a couple days later and we been goin ever since!

def worth the wait fr
This NT, if you not smashing immediately then you wasting your time!


But seriously that’s wassup. We happy for you pa, hopefully we don’t see your jersey in the rafters no time soon :lol:

Once that vibe is locked in, the smashing will come in due time which it seems a lot of people don’t want to hear.
 
I guess you ignored the part where the real issues were her wanting more and being full of drama....he was fine with the kids without the other stuff. :lol:


Most people in here don't seem to be looking for a relationship so the whole not dating single moms topic is pointless if you're just looking to smash. No one is gonna pass on a chick with no kids for one with kids. Knock down both.

21 or 36, Kids or No kids, lawyer/doctor or working retail....most people aren't to be taken seriously dating wise. Collect your Pokémon and keep it moving




In my experience dating apps are the path of least resistance (If you can't get matches then that's a location or looks/profile issue not the app). You can meet women from all backgrounds, spend a minimal amount of time, spend no money and hangout/smash.

if you can get women or talk to women offline it doesn't make sense for it not to translate online.






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