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I never have stories but I got one to share lol

I been steady dm’in a chick on Instagram for a minute. She got a boyfriend but still responds and even replies to some of my stories so I’m thinking might be something there. She ended up wanting to go out one night so we do that. Get some food and a drink. The spot started closing so I suggest gettin a bottle and watching the fight at my crib she was wit it. Get back to the crib chill and all that drink a lil more. I try to go in for a kiss to get things going and shorty duck me talkin abouit I thought we was just friends 😮. She had mentioned getting into it wit her bf the day before we hung out (which was also when she hit me up) so I’m my head I’m thinking she just wanted to get her bf jealous. One of my homies thinks she wanted to smang but I just goofed somewhere during the night.

Wat y’all think
 
I never have stories but I got one to share lol

I been steady dm’in a chick on Instagram for a minute. She got a boyfriend but still responds and even replies to some of my stories so I’m thinking might be something there. She ended up wanting to go out one night so we do that. Get some food and a drink. The spot started closing so I suggest gettin a bottle and watching the fight at my crib she was wit it. Get back to the crib chill and all that drink a lil more. I try to go in for a kiss to get things going and shorty duck me talkin abouit I thought we was just friends 😮. She had mentioned getting into it wit her bf the day before we hung out (which was also when she hit me up) so I’m my head I’m thinking she just wanted to get her bf jealous. One of my homies thinks she wanted to smang but I just goofed somewhere during the night.

Wat y’all think

did you pay for the food and drink?
 
I never have stories but I got one to share lol

I been steady dm’in a chick on Instagram for a minute. She got a boyfriend but still responds and even replies to some of my stories so I’m thinking might be something there. She ended up wanting to go out one night so we do that. Get some food and a drink. The spot started closing so I suggest gettin a bottle and watching the fight at my crib she was wit it. Get back to the crib chill and all that drink a lil more. I try to go in for a kiss to get things going and shorty duck me talkin abouit I thought we was just friends 😮. She had mentioned getting into it wit her bf the day before we hung out (which was also when she hit me up) so I’m my head I’m thinking she just wanted to get her bf jealous. One of my homies thinks she wanted to smang but I just goofed somewhere during the night.

Wat y’all think
Chalk it up as a L. If she ain't even want to kiss you, then you know you're wasting your time. It doesn't even matter why it didn't work out at that point.
 
I never have stories but I got one to share lol

I been steady dm’in a chick on Instagram for a minute. She got a boyfriend but still responds and even replies to some of my stories so I’m thinking might be something there. She ended up wanting to go out one night so we do that. Get some food and a drink. The spot started closing so I suggest gettin a bottle and watching the fight at my crib she was wit it. Get back to the crib chill and all that drink a lil more. I try to go in for a kiss to get things going and shorty duck me talkin abouit I thought we was just friends 😮. She had mentioned getting into it wit her bf the day before we hung out (which was also when she hit me up) so I’m my head I’m thinking she just wanted to get her bf jealous. One of my homies thinks she wanted to smang but I just goofed somewhere during the night.

Wat y’all think

She'll cheat. Just not all the way committed to it.

I wouldn't spend anymore time/money on it though. If it happens it'll happen. I guarantee the bf would be very unhappy if he knew she was there.
 
You bugging for camping out in the DM of a chick you know has a BF. You knew what time it was but you fooled yourself over meaningless characters

Plenty of chicks hop on dating apps when they're mad at their boyfriends/husbands sounds like a similar situation.

Just because a chick talks to you or exchanges messages with you doesn't mean she's interested. View it like a puppy/pet dynamic your presence/attention and validation is all she wanted and she got it.
 
Say less!
She'll cheat. Just not all the way committed to it.

I wouldn't spend anymore time/money on it though. If it happens it'll happen. I guarantee the bf would be very unhappy if he knew she was there.
This is how I see it. If that door is open then she'll let him smash, just not off day 1. Still would keep her on the back burner but just not spend any money or exert any extra energy on her.
 

This is the Airbnb we stayed at… came with security guard.. and a maid to make you breakfast and clean up in the morning.. no complaints!
Certainly raising the eyebrow at having a security guard on deck. Either the chicks get rowdy when it's time to go or crime like that?
Dudes would get real irritated waiting on rbk trying to figure out what to wear.
Dude be sad and lonely talking to the security guard which everyone getting lit.
 
Cartanga, inside the wall, is a huge tourist area - don’t really see the need for security. Stayed in a hotel and there was no security. 🤷‍♂️
 
A dude put me on to Japan years ago. Said being black & american made it the easiest time he'd ever had meeting women
Japan was sick. I was bagging chicks with google translate.

But theres certain spots if youre a foreigner, or dont speak Japanese and i mean speak it very well, they wont acknowledge you. As if you arent even standing infront of them. Went to one spot and its like i was invisible, chick at the door had the meanest poker face.
 
When I was in Tulum and I rented out a place like that, it came with security, maid and chef.

I’m guessing for the cost, it’s a accommodating thing. To provide comfort for tourist of large parties.
 
I never have stories but I got one to share lol

I been steady dm’in a chick on Instagram for a minute. She got a boyfriend but still responds and even replies to some of my stories so I’m thinking might be something there. She ended up wanting to go out one night so we do that. Get some food and a drink. The spot started closing so I suggest gettin a bottle and watching the fight at my crib she was wit it. Get back to the crib chill and all that drink a lil more. I try to go in for a kiss to get things going and shorty duck me talkin abouit I thought we was just friends 😮. She had mentioned getting into it wit her bf the day before we hung out (which was also when she hit me up) so I’m my head I’m thinking she just wanted to get her bf jealous. One of my homies thinks she wanted to smang but I just goofed somewhere during the night.

Wat y’all think
If she telling you about her BF, she not interested in you like that. (For now)
 
Also, if you go to Tokyo stay away from the massagee girls. Theyre relentless too. "Come with us big strong american". Foh


Also, all the Nigerians on road are pimps, or selling bootleg off white merchandise.
 
When I was in Tulum and I rented out a place like that, it came with security, maid and chef.

I’m guessing for the cost, it’s a accommodating thing. To provide comfort for tourist of large parties.

Yep exactly - I got the same next month in PV
 
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data is data, but I strongly disagree with the smile thing. if your teeth are worth showing, show them

i habitually get matches who open with comments about my smile pics, none of which are without teeth.

definitely show them pearly whites
 
Japan was sick. I was bagging chicks with google translate.

But theres certain spots if youre a foreigner, or dont speak Japanese and i mean speak it very well, they wont acknowledge you. As if you arent even standing infront of them. Went to one spot and its like i was invisible, chick at the door had the meanest poker face.
Yeah Japan has a huge jingoism issue that flies under the radar to people who don't live there. Sometimes I watch videos by black people living there and the disrespect, while rare, is kinda insane when it does pop up.

They all mention that it's still 1000 times better than america though and they'd never return here to live :lol:
 
data is data, but I strongly disagree with the smile thing. if your teeth are worth showing, show them

i habitually get matches who open with comments about my smile pics, none of which are without teeth.

definitely show them pearly whites
Most people must not have nice smiles 🤷‍♂️

The wrong smile can make a picture look worse.
 
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Yeah Japan has a huge jingoism issue that flies under the radar to people who don't live there. Sometimes I watch videos by black people living there and the disrespect, while rare, is kinda insane when it does pop up.

They all mention that it's still 1000 times better than america though and they'd never return here to live :lol:
One thing that stuck out to me was how folks just go about their day. Everyone minds their own business, not like North America. Anytime i asked for directions everyone was willing to help me. I was in Shinjuku tryna find the closest station as the last train was coming. I asked a random guy sitting on his bike. He didnt speak english, but he looked at my phone and types something in his, gets up locks his bike and motions to follow me. Im thinking is he tryna rob me cuz ima tourist? But i followed cuz what else was i gonna do, stay lost? Figured worst case im fighting. Man dude walked me to the station. I was amazed.

No one cuts lines either, like at the train station. Out here youll see some ******* cut infront of everyone, old man, woman with stroller. Over there if theres 4 ppl in line when you get there, youre #5. You better get the **** on the train when it arrives tho :lol:
 
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