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[Korofi]

Just let it go my guy, those that know know the backstory. You slowing down the thread trying to get caught up.

Bro that ain't how covid works, that isn't how any of this works. LOL. Symptoms ain't instant and you don't feel them. Also you don't get over covid with three Tylenol.

Forreal son got more important things to worry about if BM going to put you on papers because she sees you spending $10 on dating apps.

Negative reviews by scorned women being run through by NTers. LMAO.

rbk93 what are you looking for? You on apps and shooting your shot offline but wasting your efforts by fumbling the opening kick off.

I understand we all like shoes but there's certain topics you shouldn't focus on in the early stages before sexual/romantic chemistry built.

You cant be talking about shoes on the first stages. It seems some of yall want women customize like they're pron searches. I have yet to see anyone say they want a good person like for who they are. Of course you gonna have your preference cause you need to be attracted to them, but "Slim white, with a phatty and jersey accent" is just on some vain waves.


These apps dont have those filters lmao.

 

[executive76]

It seems like you didn't read or couldn't comprehend the conversation. Korofi He met the woman while she was working at FTL that's why the shoe conversation started.

Conflating the gibbersh that dude was talking about and his situation is stupid. He wants a white woman who presents like she's racially ambiguous or black but not too black

And hinge definitely has race filters so they can help him find his caucus mountain queen

 

[Korofi]

It seems like you didn't read or couldn't comprehend the conversation. Korofi He met the woman while she was working at FTL that's why the shoe conversation started.

Conflating the gibbersh that dude was talking about and his situation is stupid. He wants a white woman who presents like she's racially ambiguous or black but not too black

And hinge definitely has race filters so they can help him find his caucus mountain queen

You dont see how wild that sounds???

 

[rbk93]

Judgement free zone here.

 

[executive76]

Are you new to earth? Korofi It's not a new concept. Most people are just smart enough not to say it out loud. I bet the woman he got pregnant is the complete opposite.

 

[rbk93]

Well semi related, since I couldn't get anything lined up for today...I just went to the bar by myself. It was a fun experience (no chicks were there outside of the bartender) but met some dude who seems pretty well off. Said his tip was to hop bar to bar to find the best spot lol depending the night.

 

[rbk93]

First time going to the bar ever in general as well.

 

[アミーゴ]

First time going to the bar ever in general as well.

One tip that has served me well over the years (since I’ve moved a ton for my career) - find bars that you like and want to frequent, go at offish hours, start a convo with the bartenders (tell them you are new to the area, etc) and tip them extremely well.

Use to bring all of my dates to the same bar and the bartenders would hook it up and make me look great.

 

[executive76]

This man talked himself into being a personal shopper for a woman and you're advising him to bar hop...

 

[storm2006]

One tip that has served me well over the years (since I’ve moved a ton for my career) - find bars that you like and want to frequent, go at offish hours, start a convo with the bartenders (tell them you are new to the area, etc) and tip them extremely well.

Use to bring all of my dates to the same bar and the bartenders would hook it up and make me look great.

PREACH! Also rbk93 this probably goes without saying (and depends on what types of places you are into) but do the same with bouncers if you need to. They are extremely clutch as well.

 

[rbk93]

This man talked himself into being a personal shopper for a woman and you're advising him to bar hop...

She actually called me like a hour ago, but it was to pretty much confirm if I entered those raffles for her.

 

[storm2006]

She actually called me like a hour ago, but it was to pretty much confirm if I entered those raffles for her.

Well…did you?

 

[executive76]

And you still didn't speak up

 

[rbk93]

Yeah, it's not a issue for me. Said either 9.5(her brother) or 10(her cousin).

Whether I actually win or not is TBD. Those Court Purples last week were my first FLX win ever and these have more demand for sure.

The relationship should grow just beyond this Saturday. Hopefully.

 

[cakeddout]

Yeah man this sounds like doing toooo much for some random. This is starting to turn into a friendship than a relationship, no offense

 

[executive76]

AND the shoes aren't for HER??????????








You potentially buying shoes for some dudes (probably her BF)


This is much worse than doing something for her around her house or changing a tire. It's sad at this point you thinking you gonna hand off some other dude shoes and yall gonna go on date. She gonna take that to go plate right back to the same dude.

 

[rbk93]

Yeah man this sounds like doing toooo much for some random. This is starting to turn into a friendship than a relationship, no offense

It's minimal effort at most.

AND the shoes aren't for HER??????????








You potentially buying shoes for some dudes (probably her BF)


This is much worse than doing something for her around her house or changing a tire. It's sad at this point you thinking you gonna hand off some other dude shoes and yall gonna go on date. She gonna take that to go plate right back to the same dude.

I'm honestly cool with either or. She said she had her size on lock(might have already stated this) but beyond that, just enter raffles in this size. If we met before I got EA, I would have still looked out no problem.

I'll see how it goes either way.

A friendship is still a relationship as is. Not sexually of course, but you read the rest of this post.

 

[executive76]

It's not a friendship if it's based around you getting shoes. The situation isn't mutual.

Are you really that lonely/bored?

No one said anything about sex this is about self respect. Trying to friendship your way into something more is a weak move too.

 

[rbk93]

IDK, we're probably not going to see eye to eye on this one.


Lonely/bored? Not really. I do spend like 95% of my time by myself if that truly matters.

No self-respect lost on my end.

Learned the hard way back in HS as far as the last sentence. I believe I haven't and won't repeat that mistake again.

 

[a blinkin]

You all do know that relationships could grow from friendships, right?

if dude is cool with entering raffles and getting to know shorty, so be it. So long as she doesn’t take advantage of him (which I hope you don’t allow her to do fam), no harm no foul.

 

[noir.]

Well semi related, since I couldn't get anything lined up for today...I just went to the bar by myself. It was a fun experience (no chicks were there outside of the bartender) but met some dude who seems pretty well off. Said his tip was to hop bar to bar to find the best spot lol depending the night.

that's soooo caaaaayuuuuute... i have a neighborhood bar i go to that's in the fist floor of this really nice hotel a block from me. i'm friends with the bartenders & love going to just relax & walk back home. lot of fine women & men come thru & good conversations flow also...

 

[a blinkin]

Not sure your situation fam, but do what you feel’s best for what you’re aiming for. NT critiques always gotta be taken with a grain of salt.

Don’t play yourself trying to come up on chicks, and equally as important, don’t let chicks play you out here either. You’ll be aight.

 

[TURBO UNO]

Ya.

Stuffed grape leaves are fire tho

Never had it but it’s definitely something I want to try now that I googled it. I just told her it was yuck to piss her off, haha.

 

[TURBO UNO]

The relationship should grow just beyond this Saturday. Hopefully.

She’s getting an extended intro on you and might give her the impression you’re not thirsty or maybe have options with other women. Now just nonchalantly slip in the question if she’s “seeing” anyone. Don’t feel nervous because girls can sense that. I’d slip it in after a little haha joke. Like a blinkin earlier, a relationship can still grow. Shoot your shot G.

 

[Korofi]

And yall clowned me for calling out bro being used.....


Dude, have some self respect. You dont have to do all that for some. Got naturall build a bond with a random chick that dont want no shoes.