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Leave it alone
Side note, if you're gonna approach somebody you work with don't go sharing your business with everybody you work with. 5-7 of your co-workers gonna turn into 15-21 of your co-workers all in your **** and you don't want the potential drama that comes with that.
chrisftdot you need to take Remy LeBeau 's suggestion very seriously especially since you're in an industry that is female dominated. Your female colleagues are guaranteed to gossip among themselves plus they'll take it outside of work and share with their friend circles, etc...
Even worse is that if you get a new colleague join your department and you even try to build a friendship them, you can bet that your existing co-workers will fill them in on your past history, dating successes/failures and so forth.
I would also stop fixating on homegirl and keep your relationship strictly work related for the time being but DO NOT give her the cold shoulder or ignore her completely as she can use that as ammunition for HR by saying that she rejected an advance from you and you're no longer functioning as her teammate.
Tread lightly my G!