no need to apologize for the long post, it adds the needed context. ditto to what
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said, it might be about that time to cut it off. she’s only going to dig her heels in more and become more needy the longer this situation goes on.
you seem like a really patient person who also has a lot of things on your plate. i imagine it doesn’t feel good knowing she’s going to be disappointed because you have to cancel a date only for big booty judy to chew you out and exaggerate how youve made her feel. it’s a double whammy of guilt.
it’s absolutely fair to prioritize your personal time, career, family duties and mental health over the needs of someone who seems incapable of understanding of what you’re currently experiencing.
hope your mom is recovering well after her recent visit to the hospital, bro