Hey everyone

[boxer15]

This too shall pass, homie. It may feel impossible at the moment but things will always get better.


Also, it would be a real shame if Scientology somehow learned your ex was interested in joining. Especially if Scientology somehow ended up with her phone number, email, and address.

 

[TURBO UNO]

Also, it would be a real shame if Scientology somehow learned your ex was interested in joining. Especially if Scientology somehow ended up with her phone number, email, and address.

My sister was getting bugged by them with hand written letters and phone calls for 8 years!

"Did we do something wrong?"

 

[Brownstone]

Don't let another ones weakness define your strength

You are worth it, you matter, and you got a board here of fellas that have your back

 

[Zainjal26]

This too shall pass, homie. It may feel impossible at the moment but things will always get better.


Also, it would be a real shame if Scientology somehow learned your ex was interested in joining. Especially if Scientology somehow ended up with her phone number, email, and address.

I needed the laugh bro thank you haha

 

[Zainjal26]

IM feeling a lot better today guys i appreciate it. My cousins are coming to take me out to eat. Im going try to get my mind off things. I appreciate all your kind words and those who I dmd
aepps20
s dubl
degenerate423
cubanref

It means more than you can imagine thank you guys

 

[DCAllAfrican]

 

[D Fly]

This may sound odd, but start going on walks/jogs. They are better for your mental than you think.

And don't give up on the therapy front. You just gotta find the right therapist that suits your needs the best.

Your ex being a POS ain't your fault brodie. You can and will do better than them.

 

[frankmatthews]

One good thing about life is it is constantly changing and shifting. Nothing stays the same. I know you may not see it right now or have any hope of things getting better, but it’s inevitable. You WILL have better days, they are coming, you just gotta hang in there. Life is not the static pictures or scenarios we paint in our heads about ourselves and our situations , life is more like a movie, constantly unfolding day by day. And there’s way too many variables involved to think we can predict or foresee where it’s heading, sometimes you just gotta take a step back and look at it impersonally, and enjoy the ride, all the ups and downs. As much as the pain sucks, there’s a certain richness to the feelings you’re feeling right now. That’s life, that’s being alive. Just appreciate it for what it is and don’t try to extrapolate it out indefinitely into the future. If you walk out early you’ll never know how truly amazing your movies gonna be. Good luck!

 

[kn0wledgeable]

Glad you feel better. Gotta reprogram and get hobbies. There’s a lot to unpack but just know that you will get through this. Your best days are ahead

 

[noskey]

My cousins are coming to take me out to eat.

What did you get to eat? One of my favorite things to do is search out new restaurants and it feels amazing when you hit gold by way of a new go-to spot. Once you have a good rotation of some less-known spots, find a girl that deserves you and take her to a few of them. Food is a great way to make some special bonds with people.

Some days are going to be rough but time will help those days come few and far between. As someone who's lost more people to suicide than I would have ever thought possible, please know you have people that love you and would miss you every day of their lives. Keep trying therapy, not Betterhelp, it can take time to find one but a good therapist is amazing and worth every penny.

 

[andretti]

heartbreak is a mother, best advice i can give is this is gonna take a long *** time to get through , however theres alot of lessons to be learned in the process,therefore its best to stay sober to fully understand the, whatever that may be. you need to be sharp for your own sake.

it can be hard to leave with dignity but you should try to let her go with what dignity you have left. if i coulda did my last one again i woulda never contacted her after she hit that door.

keep yourself busy, working out keeps me sane and helps when **** gets rough.

 

[Berzerker]

Never let a female dog define you or your life. Return your ex to where she belongs - to the streets and eventually the person meant for you will find you.

This happened for a reason. Don’t question it. Don’t even bother searching for answers. Doesn’t matter at this point. Better to happen now before you were heavily invested in the relationship. I’m talking about marriage, family, property, etc.

Karma has a funny way of evening the scoreboard eventually. Work on yourself mentally, physically, emotionally, spiritually and come out of this a better YOU.

Remember every day you wake up you are given a new gift of life. Stay blessed and never take that for granted. You are stronger than you think you are!

You’ll bounce back bro.

 

[jordan23les]

I went through something similar 3 years ago.
Don't know if you believe in God but prayer definitely helped.
I just know God's timing is perfect and we go through things for a reason.
Things like being outdoors, hitting up old friends, going to the gym definitely helped.
The rejection actually led to me wanting more for myself and got a full time job.
I can't say it was easy but I can say I'm at peace now and that's worth more than any relationship I had.
You can dm me for me advice or questions.

 

[johnnyredstorm]

The greatest gift in life is life. Don’t let someone who doesn’t care about you ruin your life and affect the lives of everyone that does care about you. You’re only feeling this way because you’re not confident that you can find someone else and have another relationship. But you can and you will. It’s all mindset. Trust yourself and your own personal greatness. Go lift some weights. Eat a steak. Stay away from processed foods and junk and get your protein and exercise up. That will release some good healthy chemicals and give you energy to get out there and live this great life you have.

 

[feeninlikejodeci]

I know you mentioned coming from an Islamic family, was she also raised Muslim? How did you meet her?

 

[17]

Go get your girl kidney back bro

Spoiler

Hope you feeling better bro, one day at a time