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This is a female post. And before I say whats going on if you are wanting pictures you can press the back button.
Ok, me and my girl are doing long distance after about a year. I trust her completely and feel as though our relationship is going as strong as it did when wewere together.
But the other day this is what we argued about, so I wanted to ask you if I am crazy for stating this. And ill just lay them out in point form, and you canstate all your opinions or suggestions or beaks.
Alright, now I understand we are far away and we gotta continue living, cant just not meet people and stay in your room all hours, but there are lines, Ithink.
- When she goes to a bar /club and dudes buy her drink, she will sometimes give her number to him. Which I am "cool" with to a point, but I say sheshould not be answering phone calls/texts from him. Expecially not meeting up with him, right?
- Before she left for school she some dude on facebook hit her up and they talked and chilled when she was there. Now he calls her, now I would be"ok" with it if he was not interested in him, but even after she has told him she has a boyfriend he continues to complement her and call her andsuggest they be more. However, she is ok with it and considers him a friend because he is funny or whatever, so now its cool they hang out and talk? I thinkotherwise, is that crazy, I know its ultimately up to her what they are, really, but I just see it as wrong , no? So really she consideres someone a"friend" even if he would rather be more, possible?
- now there are many great things about her I wont list in this topic, and I love her, but just these things she seesas fine, I do not, and wanted to here your thoughts or experiences.
Ok, me and my girl are doing long distance after about a year. I trust her completely and feel as though our relationship is going as strong as it did when wewere together.
But the other day this is what we argued about, so I wanted to ask you if I am crazy for stating this. And ill just lay them out in point form, and you canstate all your opinions or suggestions or beaks.
Alright, now I understand we are far away and we gotta continue living, cant just not meet people and stay in your room all hours, but there are lines, Ithink.
- When she goes to a bar /club and dudes buy her drink, she will sometimes give her number to him. Which I am "cool" with to a point, but I say sheshould not be answering phone calls/texts from him. Expecially not meeting up with him, right?
- Before she left for school she some dude on facebook hit her up and they talked and chilled when she was there. Now he calls her, now I would be"ok" with it if he was not interested in him, but even after she has told him she has a boyfriend he continues to complement her and call her andsuggest they be more. However, she is ok with it and considers him a friend because he is funny or whatever, so now its cool they hang out and talk? I thinkotherwise, is that crazy, I know its ultimately up to her what they are, really, but I just see it as wrong , no? So really she consideres someone a"friend" even if he would rather be more, possible?
- now there are many great things about her I wont list in this topic, and I love her, but just these things she seesas fine, I do not, and wanted to here your thoughts or experiences.