Mr.Guy
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Have you ever been in a position in life where you don't feel like living anymore?
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THIS.Luckily I didn't succeed and I feel blessed to be here because I've come to love my life no matter how ****** it can get.
Very smart assessment but personally. I think some are wired(genetically or upbringing) differently than others and instinctively think negatively. Some find it hard to think of the light of the end of the road and are use to concluding situations in a negative manner and it's hard to steer people like that towards a positive path(if you can). So I almost always empathize with people who kill themselves because I personally know people who react to trauma negatively which makes me wonder what's their limit.No. Never once. Those who do are battling some sort of inner demon or life obstacle that are slowly whittling away at their will to continue. There's no obstacle that can't be overcome. Address the issue and assess how it's negatively impacting you. Determine whether or not you want this ordeal to engulf you, the answer should be no. Map out a plan on how to get over this life hurdle, but more importantly, understand that the process may not be a quick fix. Big problems rarely are. It may take days, weeks, months, etc. Keep track of your progress, analyze how you were doing the day, week, month before. How much are you progressing? Many lose sight that they are improving because they don't see the positives. So you thought about suicide today, but did you commit? No? Well that's a positive. And if you think about it again tomorrow? That's negative, right? Pessimism will tell you it is. On the other side of the coin you're one more day removed from the first time you thought about it. Plus you still haven't committed yet, obviously, because you're still alive. So really you've defeated suicide twice in two days. Congratulations, you're undefeated against death. That's positive!
I know this is long winded and it sounds cliche, but focus on all the positive things going around you and you'll make it through. It may be hard to spot at times but there is good going on in everyone's life. I hope it helps, keep your head up OP!