Has it gone too far if ...

[frankreynolds420]

Put out or shut up.

 

[lovemysole]

Originally Posted by Infyrno23

Originally Posted by lovemysole

... he left a party to go smash another chick BUT ends up not because he felt "guilty" and "couldn't stomach" the actual part of cheating?

One of my closest girls has been dating some dude since March and they've been on hiatus for the past month. Last night she calls me up and tells me that she found some text messages on his phone saying sorry for dipping out so quick but he had to for some "soft, big booty joints." I asked her if she was going thru her phone and says no; his phone was on iPod mode and when she tried to close the text screen when the text popped out she pressed reply instead so all the texts pops open.

She didn't want to ruin the night so she played along and drank at a party with his friends but for some reason he wanted to leave really early so they left. She's really good about drinking and driving so they went to the car and chilled for a while before they left and while they were in the car she seduced the truth out of him. She gets on top of him and starts kissing him on the neck and works her way to his ear and starts licking/biting him and asks him if he's ever cheated on her or if he's done anything with another girl. He tells her that some girl kissed him on the cheek last week and some girl wanted to bone the night before. Told her that him and girl dipped to go bone and she was getting naked but he couldn't go thru with it.

I know she loves him but %#%! ... I think it's too much. Don't know what to tell her because I know she's going to go back to him anyways; told her to just never look at his phone and play the "happy part" if she wants to be happy and be with him.


Cliff Notes:
Friend sees text message from her bf saying he got joints
Hangs out and drinks as if she knew nothing
When the were leaving she seduced him and asked him about cheating/being with another girl
Tells her some girl got naked for him but couldn't actually +*@# her because he realized how much he cared about her



Should I try to convince her to leave him or do you think that he actually couldn't do it? He even told her that he wants to work it out and get back together.

Too much Info.... she didnt ask all that.

Ol Usher This is my confessions lookin N

That's the only question she did ask ...? I don't get what you're saying.

 

[nationaltruckerdave]

Originally Posted by lovemysole

... he left a party to go smash another chick BUT ends up not because he felt "guilty" and "couldn't stomach" the actual part of cheating?

One of my closest girls has been dating some dude since March and they've been on hiatus for the past month. Last night she calls me up and tells me that she found some text messages on his phone saying sorry for dipping out so quick but he had to for some "soft, big booty joints." I asked her if she was going thru her phone and says no; his phone was on iPod mode and when she tried to close the text screen when the text popped out she pressed reply instead so all the texts pops open.

She didn't want to ruin the night so she played along and drank at a party with his friends but for some reason he wanted to leave really early so they left. She's really good about drinking and driving so they went to the car and chilled for a while before they left and while they were in the car she seduced the truth out of him. She gets on top of him and starts kissing him on the neck and works her way to his ear and starts licking/biting him and asks him if he's ever cheated on her or if he's done anything with another girl. He tells her that some girl kissed him on the cheek last week and some girl wanted to bone the night before. Told her that him and girl dipped to go bone and she was getting naked but he couldn't go thru with it.

I know she loves him but %#%! ... I think it's too much. Don't know what to tell her because I know she's going to go back to him anyways; told her to just never look at his phone and play the "happy part" if she wants to be happy and be with him.


Cliff Notes:
Friend sees text message from her bf saying he got joints
Hangs out and drinks as if she knew nothing
When the were leaving she seduced him and asked him about cheating/being with another girl
Tells her some girl got naked for him but couldn't actually +*@# her because he realized how much he cared about her



Should I try to convince her to leave him or do you think that he actually couldn't do it? He even told her that he wants to work it out and get back together.

COOL STORY, SIS

 

[ninjahood]

Originally Posted by NJstress03

i think you should mind your business. regardless of what you tell her she is gonna do what she wants. you will end up lookin like an idiot at the end. trust me i been there....

 

[shortydoowopp]

people like them deserve each other...

 

[teamcharisma69]

YNS

 

[highrep87]

Originally Posted by KL9

Clearly he realized he has something good and did not go through with it. She should be good.

 

[waveyjoneslocker]

Eating's not Cheating.

 

[infyrno23]

Originally Posted by lovemysole

Originally Posted by Infyrno23

Originally Posted by lovemysole

asks him if he's ever cheated on her or if he's done anything with another girl. He tells her that some girl kissed him on the cheek last week and some girl wanted to bone the night before. Told her that him and girl dipped to go bone and she was getting naked but he couldn't go thru with it.

Too much Info.... she didnt ask all that.

Ol Usher This is my confessions lookin N

That's the only question she did ask ...? I don't get what you're saying.

she asked if he ever cheated.... instead of giving the simple answer of no... he decided to throw her emotions in an envious position.
you never tell a girl you care about that "some girl wants to bone me" and then go through the details of it, to cut the story short with no ending.
what purpose is there to create that conflict between him and his girl?
all he had to do was say no... and internally recognize his mistake and correct it.

she should dump that cheating bastard