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... he left a party to go smash another chick BUT ends up not because he felt "guilty" and "couldn't stomach" the actual part ofcheating?

One of my closest girls has been dating some dude since March and they've been on hiatus for the past month. Last night she calls me up and tells me thatshe found some text messages on his phone saying sorry for dipping out so quick but he had to for some "soft, big booty joints." I asked her if shewas going thru her phone and says no; his phone was on iPod mode and when she tried to close the text screen when the text popped out she pressed reply insteadso all the texts pops open.

She didn't want to ruin the night so she played along and drank at a party with his friends but for some reason he wanted to leave really early so theyleft. She's really good about drinking and driving so they went to the car and chilled for a while before they left and while they were in the car sheseduced the truth out of him. She gets on top of him and starts kissing him on the neck and works her way to his ear and starts licking/biting him and asks himif he's ever cheated on her or if he's done anything with another girl. He tells her that some girl kissed him on the cheek last week and some girlwanted to bone the night before. Told her that him and girl dipped to go bone and she was getting naked but he couldn't go thru with it.

I know she loves him but %#%! ... I think it's too much. Don't know what to tell her because I know she's going to go back to him anyways; told herto just never look at his phone and play the "happy part" if she wants to be happy and be with him.


Cliff Notes:
Friend sees text message from her bf saying he got joints
Hangs out and drinks as if she knew nothing
When the were leaving she seduced him and asked him about cheating/being with another girl
Tells her some girl got naked for him but couldn't actually +*@# her because he realized how much he cared about her



Should I try to convince her to leave him or do you think that he actually couldn't do it? He even told her that he wants to work it out and get backtogether.
 
Originally Posted by soltheman

You stay making threads.

Calm down. hahaha.


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I know! Haha I just feel bad and need things to say to convince her to leave ... or no?
 
Who cares?

Seriously?

Who here actually cares about your "friends" menial & meaningless problems?
 
i think you should mind your business. regardless of what you tell her she is gonna do what she wants. you will end up lookin like an idiot at the end. trustme i been there....
 
Originally Posted by lovemysole

Originally Posted by soltheman

You stay making threads.




Calm down. hahaha.



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I know! Haha I just feel bad and need things to say to convince her to leave ... or no?

Don't try to convince her to do anything. For two reasons.

1. Caulkblocking.

2. Nothing you say will really convince her. She'll need to learn it by herself, or she'll continue making the same mistakes.
 
Originally Posted by soltheman


Don't try to convince her to do anything. For two reasons.

1. Cockblocking.

2. Nothing you say will really convince her. She'll need to learn it by herself, or she'll continue making the same mistakes.

this right here.
 
Clearly he realized he has something good and did not go through with it. She should be good.
 
Originally Posted by NJstress03

i think you should mind your business. regardless of what you tell her she is gonna do what she wants. you will end up lookin like an idiot at the end. trust me i been there....


Yea I know ... the problem is she tells me EVERYTHING so it's hard to just stand by the sidelines. I'll support her regardless of what she choses to doso maybe I'll just let her figure it out and cry on me when needed.
 
Originally Posted by KL9

Clearly he realized he has something good and did not go through with it. She should be good.


Yea that's what I think too because if a man wants to cheat then he'll cheat, same goes for females. Do you think he's telling her the truth?
 
Originally Posted by lovemysole

Originally Posted by NJstress03

i think you should mind your business. regardless of what you tell her she is gonna do what she wants. you will end up lookin like an idiot at the end. trust me i been there....


Yea I know ... the problem is she tells me EVERYTHING so it's hard to just stand by the sidelines. I'll support her regardless of what she choses to do so maybe I'll just let her figure it out and cry on me when needed.


i def feel you man cuz like i said i been there before. i have learned just to point out the obvious and jus tell ppl to do what they feel is right.
 
Originally Posted by NJstress03

i think you should mind your business. regardless of what you tell her she is gonna do what she wants. you will end up lookin like an idiot at the end. trust me i been there....
[color= rgb(102, 0, 153)]My ex had a friend who's man cheated on her daily, she bagged him w. other girls, hetold her he %##%!% other girls, a bunch of #+%*, beat her...blah blah blah....still stayed. If she sees the signs herself yet still doesn't leave,there's nada you can say nor do to end it[/color]
 
Originally Posted by lovemysole



She gets on top of him and starts kissing him

dumbest way of getting the truth out of a %%%@!---he gon' say whatever he gotta say to keep you doing what you doing.
 
Originally Posted by I Drink Your Milkshake

Originally Posted by lovemysole



She gets on top of him and starts kissing him

dumbest way of getting the truth out of a %%%@!---he gon' say whatever he gotta say to keep you doing what you doing.


I asked why she did that and she told me that she didn't want to start an argument plus she wanted to bone.
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Originally Posted by lovemysole

I asked why she did that and she told me that she didn't want to start an argument plus she wanted to bone.
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Pictures of your friend?
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If my girl was to do the same her man did, i wouldnt trust her. Their can always be another time that she can just give it up and not think twice about it.
 
Originally Posted by lovemysole

... he left a party to go smash another chick BUT ends up not because he felt "guilty" and "couldn't stomach" the actual part of cheating?

One of my closest girls has been dating some dude since March and they've been on hiatus for the past month. Last night she calls me up and tells me that she found some text messages on his phone saying sorry for dipping out so quick but he had to for some "soft, big booty joints." I asked her if she was going thru her phone and says no; his phone was on iPod mode and when she tried to close the text screen when the text popped out she pressed reply instead so all the texts pops open.

She didn't want to ruin the night so she played along and drank at a party with his friends but for some reason he wanted to leave really early so they left. She's really good about drinking and driving so they went to the car and chilled for a while before they left and while they were in the car she seduced the truth out of him. She gets on top of him and starts kissing him on the neck and works her way to his ear and starts licking/biting him and asks him if he's ever cheated on her or if he's done anything with another girl. He tells her that some girl kissed him on the cheek last week and some girl wanted to bone the night before. Told her that him and girl dipped to go bone and she was getting naked but he couldn't go thru with it.

I know she loves him but %#%! ... I think it's too much. Don't know what to tell her because I know she's going to go back to him anyways; told her to just never look at his phone and play the "happy part" if she wants to be happy and be with him.


Cliff Notes:
Friend sees text message from her bf saying he got joints
Hangs out and drinks as if she knew nothing
When the were leaving she seduced him and asked him about cheating/being with another girl
Tells her some girl got naked for him but couldn't actually +*@# her because he realized how much he cared about her



Should I try to convince her to leave him or do you think that he actually couldn't do it? He even told her that he wants to work it out and get back together.


Too much Info.... she didnt ask all that.

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