Going to be a dad

at least you're man enough to take on the responsibility, so i give you props for that
 
Originally Posted by JPZx

Congratulatons man. I know you're young but age is just a number....be the best parent you can be every day to your child and he'll return the love.

Good luck.

thanks homie
 
Damn, 19?
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Good luck homie, and congrats.
 
of course 19 is young to have a child, but it happened for a reason.

just be a great parent to your child and love em to death, so they grow into good people...makes it a lot easier for you then!

congrats!
 
A lot of you make great points, but frankly, how are you gonna tell someone else what they SHOULD be doing at 19. Congratulate him and move on...However itworks out, he'll find out he is responsible now or not...No one else needs to elaborate on anything.
 
Yall ppl forget that there ppl who are parents at 16 and 17 so 19 aint that bad. If he focused and ready for the responsibility, u should show ur support, nottry to instill doubt in him. Hell even at 22 I didn't think I was ready to be a father. U can't put an age limit on things like that.

Congrats OP, keep a healthy relationship w/ the mother and make sure u there for ur child even if u and the moms fall out. If u don't think u fully readynow, don't worry, u got a whole 40weeks to get there. PM me if u got any questions
 
Originally Posted by JustScoreda100

I know your looking for congrats, but expecting a child at 19?
Best of luck too you and your BM.
 
Yo OP dont let the negative comments get you down. Me an my girl were both 19 when we found out she was preggo. Right now my daughter is 1yr 3mos and she isthe greatest thing in my life. I mean it wasnt easy but i do not regret any thing at all. You gotta just step up an do what you gotta do. I understand peoplesaying 19 is too young. But hey it happens and you just gotta handle it. As long as you go into it know you gotta man up you will be fine.

So yeah Congrats OP!
 
Originally Posted by Dathbgboy

Yall ppl forget that there ppl who are parents at 16 and 17 so 19 aint that bad. If he focused and ready for the responsibility, u should show ur support, not try to instill doubt in him. Hell even at 22 I didn't think I was ready to be a father. U can't put an age limit on things like that.

Congrats OP, keep a healthy relationship w/ the mother and make sure u there for ur child even if u and the moms fall out. If u don't think u fully ready now, don't worry, u got a whole 40weeks to get there. PM me if u got any questions

Nah I'm not trying to do that, just know that pregnancy, child birth and parenting is even hard on older couples who are financially secure and in longterm relationships, yada yada. At any age it can be rough. It's just to set aside the excitement (because it is exciting) and know that ya gotta put yournose to the grindstone. The 9 months will fly by too so don't get lax on getting baby stuff and a savings acct set up and all that.
 
Im glad your happy my dude.

Cause I know I wasnt, I was depressed and sometimes it comes back, but when you see your kid growing up right before your eyes all the opinions some might havego out the door.

Its bound to happen to anyone they just see it from the outside, its tough but then again its never easy. Hate the hate in here.
 
Please teach this kid value of self and morals.
May I ask what race are you?
 
Congrats fam ! Don't let anybody take your excitement away from you or put negative thoughts in your head. I was 19 when my son was born....true enough itcan be rough financially, emotionally, mentally and physically and there will be times where you think "I wish I would've waited" but through itall the true joy and happiness that my little soldier brings to me can not be replaced by anything or anyone. You'll be fine. I'm 21 now btw. Anyquestions or advice get @ me.
 
Why is everyone trippin on the fact that he's 19 and about to be a father? The long arm of the law and the federal government considers him as an adult.Congrats Op for taking on your upcoming fatherly responsibilities. Just be there for your child and realize that you and your Gf's job on Earth now will beto rear(or raise) your child to a long and healthy life.
 
seriously though, it's not as easy as you really think it is. 19 is a very young age to be having a kid (im 19 myself). if my girl became prego, it wouldbe rip for me.
congrats and best of luck to you though..
 
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