thanks for all the input guys, to answer some questions
She got on the bc because she had pregnancy 2 straight years and we resorted to terminating it because we weren't ready. It is what it is
She came off the pills a couple days ago, and I'm starting to see some improvements in her behavior, it's been 3 weeks since she's with her mom and we spoke that she is trying to come back home this week.
Also, when people joke andnsay "oh she is getting piped out by Tyrone" you can never be 100% secure with your woman. At the end of the day the box really belongs to them, you can think it belongs to yours, but I've seen woman do some dirt to their mans and the dude never had a clue.