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so Ive been with my girl for almost 3 yrs. We have a four month old son together. ups n downs, off n ons like a lot of relationships. When we first started I was all gung-ho about marriage now I complete despise the idea of it. I feel like its pointless and changes nothting. just a ring and ceremony then things are back to how they were a day before. So recently here favorite phrase is "im keeping my options open" i reference to being with me and our relationship. She says shes happy with me NOW but sooner or later shes gonna want/need to be somebodies wife and is getting married with or without me. What would you do in this situation? play the role til that day comes? End the relationship because its basically false? Do your thing on the side cuz u assume she is? im at a stalemat i love her and my son but...theres alotta variables
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