The_Isomotion31
formerly thewindscar31
- Aug 17, 2005
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Originally Posted by ATLien Seeko
Originally Posted by SuperAntigen
So tell me, what are these differences? I posed the same question to Dimply to hopefully she can also elaborate on that...Originally Posted by whywesteppin
superA, I agree with some of what you are saying.... While simping is done out of weakness (i.e. afraid to do anything that would make the girl not like them), jerks are also doing it out of weakness (they're afraid of getting hurt after they invest anything in a female). Both are defense mechanisms.
But I still think there's a difference between being a simp and being genuinely nice to a female.
Because truly, the way I see it, the term "simpin'" was probably birthed in the crevices of some scorned dude's heart after some stupid confused female (the type i referenced in my OG post) turned him out. Completely manipulating and disregarding his goodwill towards her.
So here we have a man who thinking the act of chivalry and being a "good" man is dead, sees fit to classify any such act that would embody the goodwill toward a female as simple and the male executor of such goodwill, a simp'.
So if you're at the crib playin Call of Duty 4 on the PS3 and your girl or even some girl you just like says "GET UP! Were going to Red Lobster for dinner!" and you get your butt up without second thought, even though you wanted to stay at home and play COD4 all day, that's an example of being a simp.
Buying a girl flowers or candy every now and then because you feel like it is not an example of being a simp.
Bending over backwards to provide things for a woman because you're thirsty, that's being a simp.
Bending over backwards to provide things for a woman because she's your wife/fiance/long time girlfriend... That's not being a simp.
Catching on?
Guess I am a simp..that confirms it.
Next time my wife asks to talk, I'll just stone face her. I finally get it.