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i was in this situation before. since you bought the gift for no reason, the last thing you want to be is 'nice' to her. treat her like whatever fromnow on.
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Originally Posted by jplikejayz
a gift homie? this aint the sims where you can just give them a gift to improve your relationship status
Originally Posted by I Drink Your Milkshake
I friendzone'd somebody and I didn't even realize it until tonight
I swear, all this year the chicks I talked to had past relationship issues...And to try to get them to open up isOriginally Posted by RetroAirs23
aight well, she did have a stupid boyfriend that cheated on her like 3 times b4 she finally broke it off with him last year, im thinkin she just got her guard up on dudes that this wont happen again?
also, i must admit i turned to trickin since i been having some troubleing hookin up with her due to our distance apart from where we live. so i try to make each meetup count. i guess i layed it on too thick?
so basically, i shouldnt cut her completely out of my life then? still talk to her and such? just bring talk of other girls into our convos? should i call her like nothing happend or just wait for her to call?
also, her personality is great. chick is almost perfect.
Originally Posted by Cobra Kai
[color= rgb(255, 0, 0)]Middle chick is better imo[/color]
Originally Posted by youngflykidchris
Originally Posted by I Drink Your Milkshake
I friendzone'd somebody and I didn't even realize it until tonight
Care to Elaborate Sir ma'am?
Originally Posted by OGbobbyjohnson773
Originally Posted by thytkerjobs
Originally Posted by ProduccionFrescos
YesOriginally Posted by blackmagnus514
Fresh P..
is the thytker in your avy?
WTH is going on here, you two a couple now?
Originally Posted by RetroAirs23
aight aight so bottom line is just do my thing and get her a lil jelous but dont really try that hard on her again? let it take its path?
And there you go. To re-iterate the most important of Magnus' reply; you gotta build up your own value and make yourself seem exclusive. Whenyou do that, as seen in the example above which I italicized, the chick will feel more compelled to go after you. Who would want a person at their beck andcall all the time? No one because then they'd be lame, and nobody wants to be with someone who's lame and just buys them gifts...she'd be reallysick and twisted if she enjoyed that kinda stuff, but it's apparent she doesnt. Mind you if you really want to pursue this you got some work to do and yougotta build it back up with her a little, just do it slowly. Get to the point where she starts calling you again, which means no calling from you...becausewhen you're the one out looking for her, it gives her the impression of having the upper hand again, and thus you're the less attractive bait in this.Now I'm kinda new to this too, but I've had some guidance along the way. If ever she wants to hang out, do not ever say yes, especially not on thefirst time she asks. The busier you sound, the more value your time has, and when she has your time you'll make her feel more special, but in a good waythat won't get you turned down from sexy time. Since y'all have mutual friends, don't deliberately do this, but it would be good if they can helpbuild up your value for ya too.Originally Posted by blackmagnus514
peep game...
i just had a chick i was talking to tell me that FZ BS. I dont usually do this, but i came off top with some story of some fantasy Dominican with a Masters in Marketing who tricks on me and buys my broke college student self stuff and is perfect for me. worked like a charm. you gotta let her know she aint the only girl in the picture. when people think they have a monopoly on you, they treat you how they want...
but peep game..."friend" is a relative word anyway to some females...some might mean..FWB..some might mean platonic...if you KNOW/FEEL its platonic, dont even bother trying to get with her...the was you find out is to treat her like your guy friend...talk about other girls, and stuff you'd do with your boys..esp about girls cuz it'll show you're in demand. if she gets jealous, pull her card and you gotta revolve the convo around how you're in demand..
remember...until you get her as your GF, it's all cat/mouse...and may the best bait win.
Originally Posted by I Drink Your Milkshake
Originally Posted by youngflykidchris
Originally Posted by I Drink Your Milkshake
I friendzone'd somebody and I didn't even realize it until tonight
Care to Elaborate Sir ma'am?
somebody was attracted to me that I didn't think was capable of being attracted to me (not used to white guys) so I didn't even fathom the idea that he hung out with me because he liked me romantically, I just thought he saw I was awesome