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True, buy as a black man, Im willing to take the bet he didn’t get that from his father. If his father did pay all yhe bills, it wasn’t by choice. In my experiences, Ive only ever seen white families operate like this(Im sure there are antidotal examples of other races doing this). Even then its the husband makes the money and the wife handles all of the finances, so the husband doesn’t actually have any power.
I was speaking in general. This scenario doesn't even past the eye test. If they were really locked in like that he would be mentioning love etc or they would be engaged.
For the most part people in are emulating what they see at home or in the media.
With the media it's talked about all the time but when it comes to the home it's only talked about with the obvious or extremes violence/neglect etc. Not the subtle things that warps people's minds.