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here's some dolo clubbing game for you....Originally Posted by airblaster503
I really need to get my confidence up more so I can do this. All my friends in the town I live in are whipped and have turned into lames and I don't like having to drive 50 miles to hang out every weekend. My game has taken a hit lately, and I didn't have much to begin with. Plus I always feel mad awkward when I'm out alone, like I just want to get what I have to do done and get out asap
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there's some things you gotta understad first, la fambilia...
first off... you are NOT going to get consistent yambs out the club... just cuz you go dolo, doesnt mean chicks will be fawning all over you...
second, you need to know that you're ALONE... which means you DO NOT have the support of ya boys... any altercation that rises, get away from it cuz there arent alot of guys in the club BY THEMSELVES like you are.
next, you need to take any DAMBS that you have and leave them on the kitchen table. psych yourself up if you have to... just understand that you looking good, you smell good, and even though YOU might not see any women looking at you, PLEASE BELIEVE that they are peeping you in some form or fashion. on the way to the club or any social event dolo, i like to jam BASEDGOD or a Tariq Nasheed lecture...
embarrassment is going to happen, but you have to put in perspective that you arent w/ your boys, so no one is really going to clown you, or even notice that you get shut down... its hard, b/c you think all eyes on are on you, and being there w/ your friends sort of alleviates that pressure... but the less people you with, the less attention you garner from the MASSES... so you can really try stuff, and if it dont work, move down 5 feet and try something else.
that awkward moment when you dont have anything to look at, anymore swag gestures to do (like sip your drink, or switch your stance) RELISH in it... use it as a time to move around or go to the bathroom real quick.
when talking to chicks, it doesnt matter when you let them know you're dolo... as long as you let them know... "a few of my friends dipped out on me, but that's not going to stop me from having a good time" or "who yall came w/? oh yeah, just yall two? i came solo... why?... lol, naw, its not that i dont have any friends. i dont need a wingmen to take up my time with both of yall"
you gotta play it like that...
lastly, when you go in the club, dont HOLLA at every chick... speak to a few, ask them how they're doing, tell them you're gonna come back and talk to them, and dont do it... you'd be surprised how much your confidence skyrockets after you just speak to a few pretty girls...
AND STAY AWAY FROM THE ATTENTION HOORS