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It's just my opinion. There are relationships that have their benefits where you know marriage isn't the endgame. Yes it is selfish. I didn't say it was right, I said it's not a huge deal.Originally Posted by SpeakUp23
Originally Posted by youngdoc
IMO if you're not engaged or married you haven't made any type of real commitment and it's not a huge deal to do you
Why though? How can you get to that engaged/married point, when you are constantly cheating, getting cheated on. This argument is complete #+#@%+%%. If you want to go out and !##+ other people (guys and girls) then dont involve someone else in your selfishness, because odds are, the other person doesnt share you "opinion" and you are just hurting them at the end of the day.
If your confused about what it is you want, then its best not to get involved at all. Its not just you in the relationship.