I'll chime in this thread with some words as well. I'll put it as simple as this, it's all about who you know if you want your foot in the door. 99.9% of the time that job you're applying for online has already been filled by an internal referral or promotion and it's posted because they have to.
It's not for everyone. It's not glamorous, it's about as basic of an office setting as you can get, just dealing with music. No artists just hanging out on a daily basis, no wild parties. So if you have a certain perception of what working at a record label is, get it out of your head now. I've been yelled at for not answering an e-mail at 2:30am because I was asleep when I "should have been" awake. **** like that happens. It's essentially a 24 hour job depending on what department you work in. It's a high stress job and if you don't have the nerve and the balls for it, I suggest pursuing other career paths. It's a dog eat dog environment, if you try to just coast by with doing the bare minimum, then there's the door. Granted it's not all miserable grinding work on an album that's already past schedule and late for literally everything and has to make it to iTunes by tomorrow or else, but there's nothing you can do about it because the artist won't submit the final two songs for clearance......but for the most part that's exactly what it is.
I'll answer this question since I worked in this realm
2) If you send send unsolicited demos to labels, they get ignored, but do actual A&R's feel the same about cold contacts made to them (since a lot of them have LinkedIn profiles I'm sure they get hit up like crazy)? Or do they still prefer hearing about an act from someone they know to kinda break the ice easier? Once we build up what we feel is a big enough buzz and movement we wouldn't mind stepping to labels because we lack the resources they have, but I'd rather step correct the first time around and leave a good impression.
A: Every single unsolicited package I got with a demo, DVD, press kit, whatever it may be....it immediately goes to the trash can. I don't have time for that ****. Cold contacts get the same response. Hell I've had people even go as far as to send me FaceBook messages. Instant delete, I don't even bother reading once I see "Hi I'm a new artist out of...." done. Deleted. It's too intrusive and I'm too busy.
Here's the best way to go about getting your music in the right hands and actually maybe even listened to. Network. Build relationships with people at the labels. Whether it be at showcases, shows, wherever someone from the label is having representation. I don't mean going up to them soliciting your music right off the bat, because that is just as annoying as the unsolicited ****, but ease into it, make conversation. Just anyone at the label, even if it's someone who you may think is pointless (ex. an assistant or one of the many regular joes clocking in the 9-5 work). They are the people the A&R's round up (more specifically, the women employees for the more Pop/Dance/R&B type music) and hold brief meetings on what they listen to, who's hot in their mind right now etc, so they can feel out the climate at the moment and where their ear should be turned to....that's their platform to say "I met this group last weekend and they sound great yada yada yada"....and have the opportunity to send them a link to your work. On slow days, a lot of times they like it when they see someone come into their office giving them something to check out....it takes out the legwork on their end and on the person's perspective, let's the A&R know they are serious about working in the industry.
It also depends on the A&R. I'm not going to say names because that will give away where I worked and who I know, but some are either older and stuck in their ways with their own system of things, and others are more with the times and are willing to hear out the younger, up and coming generation for fresh sounds. Whether it be by browsing Soundcloud or word of mouth from what I said a few sentences back. But keep in mind, the fate of your music doesn't rest with the A&R, it goes beyond him/her. He/She could love your stuff, but when presenting it to the label, everyone else may not feel the same way and then it just gets tossed to the side with the rest of the pile. In today's world, it's all about finding something that's already done most of the work because they want something they can shoot out immediately rather than build up. There's no artist development these days. YouTube views, mixtape downloads, buzz already on blogs/magazines.....makes it easy for them to swoop in and work a single that you've already had out there for months.
Might have rambled or been repetitive at times, but it's late so forgive me. I might go back and edit later, but for now I'll leave it.